Parents love their children boundlessly. They pamper and nurture their kids with unfathomable amount of love and affection.They become apprehensive and restless, even with the maligning thoughts of slightest harm to their precious biological parts. Parental love is the purest form of love and it sets supreme and unsurpassable standards amongst different forms of love. The parents and child relation is divine and godly. Parents love their kids with blooming hearts, but has anyone of them stopped to take a note of how much are their kids attached to them? If not, then have a look at these seven signs that will help in determining children’s affection and bonding with you.
1. Newborn infant looks into your eyes
When a new born baby stares right into the parent’s eyes, it means that the newborn baby is trying very hard to memorize your face. The newborn has just stepped into a new world and everything else around him is completely strange. At the same moment, he knows that the person holding him is very significant.
2. Your toddler looks for you in your absence
In case of parental absence, kids between the age group of 8-12 months disturbingly crumple their face and desperately look for their arrival. This is because the kid is comfortable with his parents. Parental presence brings a strange but favourable sense of comfort to kids. And as the parent enters the room, the kids suddenly wear a bright smile.
3. Your baby starts throwing tantrums
Well, it may sound negative, however it is not so. When your kid cries and screams over you, that doesn’t always mean he or she hates you. Your baby would have not got angry if he did not love you. This is because the kid has started developing significant emotions of love and trust for you.
4. In case of discomfort and sadness, kid comes over to you
At such a small and tender age, kids may be unable to express their feelings through words like ‘I love you’ or ‘I care for you’. However, they articulate those feelings through actions. In this world, where everyone else is unknown and stranger for your kid, you are the only one who is his sole confidante. He or she may rush over to you for some comfort, whenever he or she falls down or feels low.
5. Your tot brings gifts for you
A flower from the garden, a share of his chocolates, a cute drawing, a shiny paper or any other small thing for you is enough to tell how special you stand in his eyes. Gifting those small little things indicates how much he appreciates you. And these kind of small gestures bring big time pleasure in life.
6. Your baby needs your nod
Your kid will start to become co-operative and try to please you with small helpful actions. He or she will want to grab your attention to impress you. He will ask you, whether he could help you with something or perhaps he will try to gain your focus by just saying, ‘Look at me mom’.
7. Your kid unveils embarrassing secrets to you
Your little kid trusts you with personal information. He or she thinks you are worth knowing his most embarrassing facts or even first crush.
Look for these small but precious signs within your kids actions. These are cute gestures of saying, ‘Mom and Dad, I love you’.
