Spread Love and Joy around You
You are the best in your own right. You need to believe so yourself, before you get anyone else to believe it. However, it is true that your behaviour with those around you is what defines you. Hence, if you love and respect everyone around you, you will start feeling good about yourself. Try making everyone around you happy and you will feel immense joy and pleasure. In fact, others will treat you the way you have treated them. Hence, treat everyone with as much kindness as possible. You will slowly start to like yourself. You will become someone worthy in your own eyes. The other thing that you can do is smile at everyone you come across. Some will not smile back at you but for those who do, you will feel good about it. Also, those people that you have helped will shower their gratitude on you. This will make you feel even better. None the less, there is an altogether different side to this. You don’t have to be nice to people just because you want them to be nice to you. It should come from within. The feeling of helping out and bringing joy around you should be absolutely natural.
Add Some Good Karma into your Account
It is not only going to add to your good karma but you are going to feel a hundred times better about yourself. It is going to be one hell of a person that you will become. All you need to do is, put in a little bit of effort. However, before you go out and start spreading love and joy for everyone else, love yourself. Yes, you need to like yourself first before anyone else does. In fact, no one is going to like you if you don’t like yourself. Hence, learn to love yourself at every step of life. No matter what happens, stay in love with yourself. This will help you go a million steps ahead. Spreading love and joy and loving yourself are the 2 basic steps towards being unique. It will cast an altogether different impression on everyone around you. It is as simple as being good to everyone around you and being thankful to people around you. If you don’t do this already, you should definitely inculcate such practice in your life. You could start with something like one good deed a day. You could make a notebook and write down your good deeds on a regular basis. Whenever you are feeling low, look back into those pages and it will cheer you up.
Listen to your Inner Voice
Just like every other person around you, you also have your own characteristics. Learn to accept yourself the way you are. Do not try imitating those who are around you. Hence, be yourself and be proud of who you are. If you are proud of yourself then, your personality is going to shine on amidst a crowd. However, remember you have to be proud and not prudish. Also, read a lot and increase your knowledge. Having an awareness of whatever is happening around you is a necessity. Also, don’t keep this knowledge to yourself. Share it with people, indulge into conversations and experience the joy of having knowledge. Sometimes, you do not know what good deed you should be doing. Listen to your inner voice, you will be directed towards what to do. Always do what your inner voice is asking you to, even if the world is against it. Nothing can direct you better than your own inner voice. If you cannot hear your inner voice yet, you should meditate and keep yourself calmer. Keeping your emotions in control will help you reach your inner voice easily. It isn’t so difficult to listen to the inner voice if you have a guilty conscience. And you are going to develop a guilty conscience for sure if you continue with spreading joy and happiness, doing good deeds and sharing your knowledge.
Be Yourself, Without Any Fear or Apprehensions
You will really begin to feel unique and nice once you have developed these habits. Not only will it make you distinct from everyone else, it will also increase your potential. You will start feeling happier as well. Start with sharing your knowledge, your happiness and your newness with everyone around you. Set goals for yourself and accomplish them but set only those goals that you like. For, loving yourself and doing what you like to do is one of the major keys to becoming a unique person. You are special only if you believe you are. You don’t need confirm to anything or anyone, you only need to be who you are, without any fear or apprehensions. You are one among many.