Sex is something that everybody enjoys, but people shirk talking about it. Sometimes partners fail to realize that their mutual talks on sex are of vital importance to keep alive the flame of love and romance in their lives. To make an intimate relation more special, equal participation of the partners is required. However, to play the equal roles a man should know his beloved’s requirements and the woman should know how to satisfy her man to the fullest because the sex needs of a woman are different from that of a man.
It is of paramount importance that a couple indulges in “sex-talks” with each other so that the sexual desires are communicated well to each other. Apart from the mutual sex talks, following are some tips that can help couples to make their love life even more interesting and lusty:
Fantasies can do wonders
Our brain is the most powerful sex organ that requires some wild fantasies for an arousal. Sharing sexual fantasies with your partner can increase the excitement in your relationship like never before. Fantasies reignite the lost or the lazy sexual attitude of yours. They make you take up new sexual habits and to try out new things, eventually keeping the sex very much alive in your relationship.
Naughty, dirty talk
Dirty talk, especially during sex are so powerful that they bring in longevity and give an added sexual pleasure. When partners talk about their individual sexual interests, like what they like to do and in what way, it certainly adds to the pleasure. Ensure that you talk before and after you make out, and find out how satisfied your partner is. Many people never care to talk to each other after they spend those intimate moments together, which is very wrong, as in how do you know that your partner is satisfied or not. So, talk, talk, and talk.
Experiment with the places where you do the lovemaking
To make your sex life interesting, leave your bed and get the hang of some new places to make love. How about the couch or the sofa lying in your drawing room. The other ideas include the car parked in your garage or your bathroom. The more unconventional the place, the more pleasure it gives.
Prolong your sex experience
Prolonged sex experience makes the lovemaking more interesting and exciting. The best way to prolong the experience is to adopt a start-stop approach while having sex. This method calls for a masturbation till the point of ejaculation and then to stop until the urge to ejaculate passes. Repeat this procedure for as long as you both want your sex experience to prolong.
Be open and try new things
Monotony is the biggest enemy of a sexual desire in partners. If every day you tend to indulge in the same old ways of having sex, there is quite a possibility that boredom will soon set in. Therefore, to save your love life from the clutches of boredom, ensure that you try out new things every other day, as in pleasing scents, subdued colors, soft lighting, background music, sexy clothes, and various other techniques that can make you crazy.
It is better to have no sex rather than having a forced sex. It is but natural that at times there is not even a least desire for sex in one partner, while the other has. In such circumstances, both the partners must show true understanding and absolute respect for each other’s feelings. Forced sex is not at all good for a healthy love life.