How do we define someone to be bad or good? Well the answer is based on their behaviour and when we have to rate kids on this parameter, it all depends upon their upbringing, family culture and their lifestyle and friends. Here are the ways in which we can deal and also bring a change in our bad kids.
Emphasise on love in your relationship with your kids.Your children’s social development highly depends upon your relationship with him. Take time out to play games, listen and to teach them ways of life. Tell them that you love them and strengthen the bond by sharing a good laugh and by expressing your love through the tone of your voice. And this lifestyle turns into the culture that you instill in your children in the long term.
Plan your kids’ childhood
The term growing up is self explanatory. Childhood is a natural phase of transition and learning and it is an obvious fact that your child will behave badly to the accomplishments for which he does not have the skills. So, your job is to participate in their struggle for achievements and show compassion towards their zeal to try something instead of dreading the bad behaviour that they show while pursuing it.
Establish the action and consequences rule
Make sure that you respond promptly towards your child’s behaviour. Treat them positively if they show a good behaviour in their approach and penalise them for the bad approach towards life. Eventually, your children will apply logic to this action and consequences approach and will change their behaviour on their own. Plan your responses by taking an active part in your children’s behaviour. Planning helps you to understand your relationship with your children better and also strengthen the bond that will ultimately carve a niche personality out of them.