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How to deal with passive aggressiveness

Passive aggressive people do not have any control over their emotions and tend to remain pessimistic. They are the people who have the ability to see negative even on the positive note. This may occur due to a constant fear of failure. Some people have the tendency to take things more seriously than they should have. This often lead to a emotional dilemma in their mind.

Never feel guilty

If you are not responsible for something, never feel guilty about that. Eventually the person who is responsible for that will have to suffer big time. With some straight forward attitude, you can easily overcome people with passive aggressive behavior. Passive aggressive people have a tendency to freeze in the moment of conflict so it is better to stay away from them. They will never support you no matter how well things are going.  If you are dealing with such type of people, always remember that you should make them realize if they do anything wrong. The brighter prospect always comes out from the shades of grey. You never know how they are going to react in the moment of conflict so it is better to prepare yourself for the worst scenario. The only thing that they are good at is the art of blaming other people. They will never take responsibility for their actions. Opn the contrary they will always blame others for any mistakes.

Confronting the dishonest behavior

Confrontation is an important aspect of retaliating to passive aggressiveness.  If you try to avoid these people, their behavior will grow more aggressive and will try to dominate you. So the best thing in this case is to confront them and make them realize about their mistakes. Sometimes you will have to be over aggressive when you are dealing with passive personalities. Also make sure that they are held accountable for their behavior and strict actions must be taken against them. it becomes quite necessary for us to take stern action against these type of people. Showing leniency might result in domination. if they are imposing on you, retaliate with aggressiveness since aggression can only be dealt with aggression. You have to counter attack them and make them realize that they have done something wrong. A strong communication between two people is the most effective way to eradicate passive aggressiveness. You have to be a good listener in order to implement this strategy.

 

Dr Prem Jagyasi

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