In every relationship, people tend to bring their own baggage. Most of the time, it is one’s experience with his past relationships that help create a better bond between him and his current loved one. Disappointments will be inevitable in this kind of relationship, but in most cases, these are what help pave a much stronger connection between partners.
However, there are times when a person perceives flaws from his partner, and these may prove to be unhealthy with their connection. There may come certain times when an individual thinks too much on the little details, such as his partner’s height, appearance, education, and even the way his date drinks or eats.
People are meant to make mistakes, and one of these is trying to find that significant other whom they think is the perfect mate mirroring their own personality.
Don’t expect your partner to be perfect
There’s no such thing as the perfect partner. Many already know this statement, but somehow choose not to apply. At first, having someone who has every characteristic a certain individual is looking for could make things a lot interesting. But eventually, that ‘connection’ would not build up, and that certain interest with each other will soon fade away little by little, making the relationship dull.
From the perspective of a person who has had many experiences with different love relationships, a more applicable approach would be to find the right partner who understands his own imperfections. To embrace and try to improve one’s own defects makes relationships work much better.
Embrace the other’s flaws
Disagreements will always happen within couples, and some even on a level where both sides dig up defects that aggravate the situation.
But as these are overcome, each would learn to embrace the other’s flaws, in which case communication serves vital to building up their love relationship.
To communicate is to understand the other person much better. In every love relationship, sharing feelings, dreams, and other stuff is important so as not to get into any fights because of misunderstandings.
In cases where one feels upset about something, the best thing to do is settle down and only communicate with his partner until he has the right peace of mind to avoid unwanted arguments. It also helps to let the other person know how one’s feeling with less talk.