Guide on how to deal with life’s bitter part and look forward

“If life gets too hard to stand, kneel”. As rightly said by Gordon B Hinkley, this is a quote which is very apt for real life. This is a quote which is very simple to say but has very deep significance when thought about. As the saying rightly goes you should always take life as it comes. If you feel that you have been defeated in any way, accept the defeat and bow down so that you can realise the mistake that you have made and thus rectify the same.

It is the nature of human beings to question God whenever he feels that things are not going in the right direction. We all have our own trials as well as troubles. The quote if Life Gets Too Hard To Stand, Kneel is very alike to the quote, Some days we beat the past, some days it beats us”.Do not be anxious of anything . Instead take life jovially and happily and you will find contentment in the same. Pray to God when you feel that things are going beyond your reach. Kneel down and show him that you have come to him for contentment.

Significance of the term

Woman praying to God

We always find ourselves kneeling in front of the Lord for any kind of problems and wishes. Everyone has failures in life and there are times when you can also get in to heated discussions on something which you do not agree on. However a trivial failure does not mean that you just leave hope or keep on fighting. You should have the tenacity and the patience to kneel down and accept if you are at fault. Accepting your fault is never bad. Pray to God when you think that things are going out of control. You will definitely find a path to success and happiness.

Be Positive

A positive attitude can erase of the feeling of negativity and pessimism. If you feel that you are having tremendous problems in life which you cannot solve by yourself, just bow down and think for a while. Try being cool. Do not feel ashamed to kneel down. A small example of this said quote can be as follows- You as a wife have had strife with your husband where you know that you are right in some places. However your husband will not yield down as his ego will not permit him to. Even if you know that you are right, there seems to be a conflict of minds within you to which will eventually lead to mental barrages, trivial fights and disparity. The enthusiasm to forgive is a symbol of religious and poignant maturity. Kneeling down is one of the greatest virtues that can be found in mankind.

The right thing for you to do in this situation is bend down and accept that you are the one who is at fault. You should not be ashamed of bending down. Sometimes bending down also helps to save a relation in many ways. Your ego should not come in the middle of your relation. If you do not yield, you would be depressed, sad and morose. Praying to God can surely lead you to a path where you would be enlightened and you can be leaded to solution that you think was not possible at all.

Have faith in God

Have faith in God

You should aim very high in life but you should not aim high where you would have the probability of falling and hurting yourself. There are situations in your life which you cannot handle anymore. So when things start going out of control and bounds, start trusting someone who can perform a miracle in your life. It can also be God. There is no one more trustworthy then God. It is not shameful to kneel down in front of God and rest your problems to him. He will surely find an answer to your problems.

Praying to God will not only give you inner strength and confidence but will give you a knowledge which you will feel enlighten with.

Life is not as bad as it seems. There is always a streak of sunshine within the dark clouds. Put your trust in God, and move ahead with confidence and self-assurance in the future. The Lord will not abandon us. He will not renounce us. If we will put our trust in Him, and if we will pray to Him, will live worthy of His blessings, He will hear our prayers.”Let us never forget that God is among us. Even if we are not aware, he cares for us and always shows us the right path. He will be present to only those who believe in him with true heart.

Kneel down and feel the reverence for your God. This is a gift which you alone can spend with your God. Your prayers will never depress you. You will always be sent good wishes and your prayers will be answered. We feel ourselves emotionally and mentally unbalanced at one point of time. It feels as if life is sweeping everything away. This is the time when we find ourselves kneeling in the feet of God.

Kneel down in front of God for forgiveness and Gods grace will always be with you. There will be a miracle which you would never think of- An act of kindness and empathy. You will see your life getting simpler, the tangles slowly and gradually unbinding your life much simpler and free of complications. Thus, this is a true quote in the real sense of the term.

Derive strength from hardships and sorrows that come your way

man facing hardships

Life is certainly not a fairytale for most. Every single person has to go through hardships of life. Your struggle eventually turns you into a brave soul and gives you the strength to keep moving forward on path of success. As they say a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor, one must acknowledge the fact that difficulties only turn you into a better person and give you the ability to make wise decisions.

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” – Kahlil Gibran

Your troubles help you develop a broader perspective towards life. If you do not let negativity affect you, the difficulties of everyday life strengthen your efforts too. Oprah Winfrey is a famous philanthropist and entrepreneur who has gone through rough phases of life and actually learnt from each struggle she ever faced, be it poverty, racism or sexual abuse. She never let het difficulties define her and always came out as a winner.

“Sometimes you don’t realize your own strength until you come face to face with your greatest weakness.” – Susan Gale

You would agree with the fact that at times you are not even aware of your strengths until you are forced to face a difficult phase of life. You only realize that when that phase is over and that is the time when you come face to face with your true self. J.K. Rowling who is a multi-millionaire today is living example. A single mother who once struggled to make two ends meet and never gave up in life is now a world-renowned author who has inspired millions of others.

“One thing you can’t hide – is when you’re crippled inside.” ― John Lennon

facing harsh realities of life

No doubt, it is hard to hide your tears when the harsh realities of life hit you hard but those who had the strength to shake off their failures and try with extra vigor eventually get success in life.

“The bravest sight in the world is to see a great man struggling against adversity.” –Seneca

No one gets success easily. It is just that most people tend to overlook the struggle that turn an ordinary human being into an achiever. Get inspired from those who take the control in their own hands and write their story of success.

It is quite possible to use your struggles to fuel your zeal to bring about some positive changes in your life. Here are a few useful tips:

Give your best and leave the rest

It may sound a bit philosophical at times but it is important to detach yourself from your problems. Lean to detach yourself from your problems emotionally so that you can move on in life rather them mourning over your troubles.

View your challenges as opportunities to learn

View your challenges as opportunities

Each challenge life throws at you comes along with an opportunity to learn something new that helps you move closer to your target. Those who usually approach their problems with this attitude are always ahead in life as they keep their options open.

You are among millions

Always remember the fact that you are never alone. The moment you are going through a rough phase of life there are millions of others who experience the same feelings. Each person has to face struggles that even threaten his/her existence and steal happiness. The fact that you are not the only one can at times help you ease the pain.

No matter what life offers, those who are ready to face adversities of life head on get success eventually. You only need to let your struggle fuel your desire to win.

Stop worrying about the past and move on with your life

It gets difficult to move on in life when you keep mourning over your past. Each one of us has a dark side to his/her life and no wonder all of us make mistakes also. It is however important to make mistakes as lessons learnt hard ways are not easily forgotten. One must get over the past mistakes and move to in life to meet their destiny. If you wish to make the best use of your skills, you must learn to look ahead in life.

You are only human

disappointed MALE

You must understand the fact that you are a human being who cannot control the uncontrollable. An attempt to do that would only give your disappointment. Learn to accept the ways of universe as it has a perfect plan for each one and that is much better than your own plan. Have faith in your abilities and give your best. Do not run after perfection as that may also add to your misery. You must learn to go with the flow when nothing seems to work.

Hard times teach you a lot

Each struggle you go through give you learning that further paves way for success. You cannot deny the fact that your grief and sorrows complete you. You cannot truly imagine your existence without your troubles. They make you stronger and prepare you to face the worse. It is true that your mistakes and failures give you learning of a lifetime.

Accept your true self

decision-making process

It is important that you must learn to relate with your feelings instead of being apprehensive. You should never be ashamed of your true self. You may get nervous when you have to make important decisions of your life but that is all natural. Self-doubt and anxiety is all natural. It keeps you on your toes and helps you improve yourself. Do to forget that fact your troubles may hamper your ability to make wise decisions for a while but you must not let it turn into a habit. Be proud of your true self and the way you feel.

Shape your destiny

You have the power to shape your own destiny. You may have made mistakes or things may have gone wrong in past but that does not change anything. Start all over again and shift your focus towards a positive and productive life. When you feed good thoughts to your brain, you give a new direction to your life and touch new millstones in life.

Learn to visualize success and happiness in your life to witness the dramatic changes. Universe has blessed you with beautiful gifts. Your thoughts transform into images on your minds and your subconscious mind creates circumstances to turn that dream into reality. Think positive even when life seems to take a wrong direction.

Sadness in life is temporary

Sadness in life is temporary

Life is a blend of good and bad experiences. Each individual has to go through rough phases in life. Do not let your hardships bring you down. You must understand the fact that nothing is permanent. Time changes within a blink of an eye and so does everything around you.

Remember that you may not have any reason to smile but that must not change the way you look at life. Keep your hopes up and fingers crossed for a better tomorrow as change is the only thing, which is permanent.

There is actually no one who does not have problems in their life. You cannot change your past but can certainly make efforts to give life to your dreams.

Dr Prem Jagyasi and Team

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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