Getting married is a life changing experience and the initial period is the one when it is important for the newlyweds to understand each other. A better understanding will help in building a stronger relationship. After marriage when both of you are travelling together for the first time things might be a bit difficult as both of you do not know each other well. But if both put in efforts then the awkwardness will disappear fast and both of you will come closer together.
Newlyweds travel tips
Travelling for the first time as a couple can pose a few problems. But you can make use of few tips which can come handy to the newly wedded couple-
- Be realistic
You have to be realistic. Remember that every day is not going to be a romantic evening. There will be ups and downs and there will be fatigue and stress. So you have to learn to accept all of it with a smile.
- Learn to share responsibilities, space and money
Though you are on a vacation you must learn to share responsibilities. You cannot dump everything on one person and relax. Similarly, you should learn to be more patient and respect each other’s space. Also, share money but keep a track of it.
- Learn to ignore and laugh
Both of you are going to have certain habits which will annoy your partner. You have to have the knack to ignore these habits or take things lightly. You cannot over react to everything as you will only end up spoiling your vacation.
- Understand the importance of spending time together
You have to keep away from your gadgets and social media and spend quality time with your partner. This is of utmost importance.
- Don’t let the spark go off
Keep the fire alive with your romantic gestures which will help in strengthening your bonds.
Travel activities to give chance to get closer
In addition to the tips, there are a number of activities which work as a catalyst to get you both closer together and will help in establishing a strong bond.
- You must have a fun trip together
Yes, this is important and you must keep doing this often. This will give you more time to know each other and also will help in understanding each other’s strengths and drawbacks.
- Indulge in healthy competition
Hit out at the gym or have a game of squash together. Develop a healthy competitive spirit which will only get both of you closer together.
- Carry your own baggage
Even if he always ready to hold your bag it is better to take turns. Not only will it give him some breathing time but it will also be a fun way of sharing the responsibilities.
- Make new friends
It is not necessary that you keep to yourself. Instead, try making new friends and try to be sociable so that you have company.
- Go in for adventure sports
If you are adventure freaks, then go in for a fun filled adventure sports activity which will surely help both of you get closer together.
- Keep entertaining each other
Tell a joke or sing a song together and just keep up the tempo. Do not let it get boring and dull. Just keep each other entertained so that both of you enjoy each other’s company.