Traits that help to find a con in a relationship

Love is such a beautiful thing, and being in a love relationship with your partner is even more beautiful. Meeting your special someone for the first time, or that first time you talk to him over telephone is just magical. It is like flying in the colorful sky without any fetters and limitations. A relationship starts with a person we find we can confide into, and share those intimate and most exclusive moments with them.

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If these feelings are mutual in both the partners then things go well, but if one of the partners do not have this similar motive behind being in a relationship, then the trouble starts. Some men and women start a relationship just to serve their selfish and wicked motives; they are con men and women. Con men and women are a part of this day-to-day world and especially of the virtual world, wherein they eye the opposite sex people like vultures and trap the one who is easy to fool. Usually, money is the main motive because the con men and women know that the easiest and the quickest way to someone’s wealth goes through their heart.

It would not be any wrong to say that the con men and women are perfect artists, as they play the game so well that their partner has a hard time identifying their evil interest. Luckily, there are certain behavioral and other warning signs that you can understand and guard yourself against the cons.

Too good-looking profile picture

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This one goes for people who like to make friends and start a relationship with someone whom they meet over social networking sites. Whenever you someone’s profile picture that seems to be too good and beautiful, a question must strike in your mind. If a picture seems to be too professional, your suspicion level must rise because there are scammers who make use of the pictures posted by some models and try to fool people.

Therefore, when you start chatting with them, ask them to post some more pictures, especially the ones that show them in their laid-back routine. If they do not satisfy your suspicions, leave them and block them once and for all.

They prefer to move fast

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You meet someone online today, exchange a few e-mails and messages, and today itself he asks you for your number, then too soon he calls you for a meeting.. Stop! This is not good, as one need to proceed with caution if one wants to have everything good and normal. The fakes or the cons are usually the ones who are always in hurry to move onto the next level because all they are concerned about is their final step, which is not a long-term relationship, but to ditch and deceive. So beware.

Too good to be true person


Scammers and cons are adept at befooling people with their made up persona, the one that is too good to be real. For instance, a decent, beautiful, and sensible divorcee woman or a man, who claims to have fallen in true love with you, a beautiful foreign woman who wants some help, or a wealthy doctor who has got someone like you for the first time in life.

Often demand of money

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Money is one factor and the most important signal, which can help you get rid of a con man or a woman. Such people start asking for money after a short period only. Never give money if you do not know the person well, and especially to your virtual friend. Do not entertain anybody who quite often demands money.


There is no dearth of good people and true lovers in this world but there is no shortage of scammers and the cons. One should have firsthand knowledge of the basic warning signs that can save us falling in trap of such con artists.

Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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