Oh the difficult task of asking a girl on a date! When one goes out to do this, not only does one risk facing rejection, one also stands the risk of getting slapped, publicly insulted or hit by sandals, slippers, heels etc. Needless to say, this is a herculean task that needs to be carried out with utmost precaution. Thus, one needs to think before you take the leap. Also, ask only if the girl has given you some signs that she is interested. Otherwise, it will be a vain to ask her out. Then, it is a sure shot thing that one of the above mishaps will take place.
However, asking a girl on a date depends on where you meet her. For, these days one doesn’t always meet their partner in person first.
There is a good chance that you will have met them on social networking websites first and then, elsewhere. Hence, your method of asking a girl on a date will change depending on where you have met her. For instance, if you have met a girl on a social networking site, you are definitely not going to ask her out directly.
You need to get to know each other first. For instance, talk to her, do a background check on her etc. After that also, maybe you have had a few chat sessions and think that you should meet.
The first meeting is not going to be a date. You need to hang out with each other for a while before you finally go ahead and get dating. It is only after a few outings together that you should ask the girl on a date and only after a few dates should you ask her to be your girlfriend. Thus, it is going to be a slow process.
However, if you haven’t met the girl on the internet but have met her at a place like the bar, a cafe etc. then you can ask her out directly if you think she is interested in you. In fact, chances are, she might be waiting for you to make the first move. Go ahead, do it, sweep her off her feet and take her out with you.
Lastly, the trickiest thing is to ask a girl from your class or your neighbourhood. In here, you just have to put your life at risk and ask!
