Subconsciously we identify with both our positive and negative personality traits. Therefore, sometimes we even feel drawn to people who have very visible faults in their personality. We know that we have the same negative qualities to ourselves, so we feel drawn to people who accept them more willingly. In the same way, if we learn how to accept our negative qualities, not by bemoaning them but in a rather humorous way, it’d make our personality much more attractive. People around us would be able to relate us in a better way. If we just put a formal front and hide all our faults, it’d just make us feel distant and isolated.
Quotes; “People usually do not trust others because they see others as different from themselves. They subconsciously identify themselves with both the positive and negative traits of their character.” – Quote by Dr Prem Jagysi