Every woman has a different personality and it is for this reason that one has to always play a different game with each woman. But, there are certain basic rules that a man can follow in order to keep his wife happy.
Spending quality time
The greatest investment for any relationship to grow stronger and longer is to spend quality time with each other. Spending time with your wife will bring her closer to you and help you understand her as a person. This will strengthen your bond and help you understand her preferences and likes. Listen to what she has to say. Let her share her dreams and fears and share her dayâs happenings with you. Being a good listener is one of the prerequisites to a good and successful marriage. A husband who understands and spends time with his wife will have a loving companion who will cherish him forever and will give him unconditional love to bask in.
Show abundant care and love
Caring and sharing is part of every loving relationship. Unfortunately, in todayâs world, this is something which every marriage lacks. The vagaries of life have left little time for showering abundant care and love on your spouse. Make sure that you give your wife enough love and care so that she does not have anything to complain about. Caring and loving does not in any way mean that you have to spend quantity time with your spouse. It can be through simple gestures and whenever you can. Women value such simple gestures and this is all that she would need to remain content in her marriage without any complaints. Showing enough care and concern will help her stay in love and understand you even when you are busy and cannot give as much time as she craves.
Remember important occasions
This is where many men are a complete failure. All women expect their men to remember important dates related to their life like wedding anniversary and birthday. Remembering these two important dates every year will ensure that your woman feels loved and cherished all throughout. Ensuring that you do not forget these dates and doing everything to make these days special and memorable will help you give your wife lot of happiness and love. This will also create in her a feeling of being loved and valued by her husband. All women would respect and love husbands who make their moments special.
Shower her with gifts
Special occasions must be made special and this would mean that you can give her gifts that she will value and would be proud of. This does not mean that you have to always give her expensive things. The simple gesture of giving her a gift is enough for most women to feel ecstatic. Gifts need not always be given on special occasions as well. You may show your love towards her with small gifts whenever you feel like. It is a great way of sayingâ I love youâ without ever having to utter the special words. Try to understand what she craves for most and gift her those special things in special ways.
Women love surprises and compliments
Yes, women love surprises and men must make sure that they take advantage of this weakness in all possible ways. Surprise her with surprise gifts, parties, holidays or anything that catches your fancy and you think that would surprise her as well. This can be planning a short vacation, taking her for a movie that she has been waiting to be released, getting her something that she wanted for a long time but did not have the money to buy, bringing her parents home for a surprise visit and what not! Simple gestures like these will keep your marital life blissful and make your wife feel loved and special. Once in a while, make it a point to take her shopping or drop her at her friendâs house for a party or pick her up thereafter.
Complimenting her on little things that she has done, endearing habits, gestures, looks, acts of kindness, pleasing behaviours etc. will make her feel happy and utterly special. Let her know that the dinner that she has prepared was delicious, her achievements have made you proud, that you are grateful for her advises… Little romantic gestures like holding hands and complimenting her on her looks would help her stay ecstatic and wonderfully happy.
