Some people are often unhappy, gossip a lot and complain too. They are not happy and won’t let others live happily. It gets too difficult at times to deal with this kind of unreasonable people. Read on to know what we can do to change them.
Never try to correct them
This is a mistake many people make, even though they know that they are dealing with unreasonable people. These kind of people treat the problem as a part of their identity and refuse to accept that they are being unreasonable. If you want to change that, you are simply wasting your time and energy. Trust me you have got better things to do than making them realize how stupid they are being. It is always better to prevent and prepare than repent at repair. So, just shoot a smile and move on rather than trying to correct them.
Don’t lose yourself by becoming like them
These kind of people have an annoying contempt in their demeanor and a disdain in their voice. In such situations, it is easy to complain and react. In the process you are stooping to their level without even realizing it. If you want to have better results in dealing with these kind of people, simply stop reacting. It is indeed a test for your patience but you can’t help. There is no other way.
Try to win others rather than winning an argument
We must bear in our mind that when we are dealing with fools, there is no way you will win against them. Of course, again, this is his perspective. The fool feels that he is the ultimate winner. When you have that urge to argue and prove that he is wrong, just question yourself. is it worth?
So, when you are confronted by an unreasonable person, choose your answers carefully in such a way that it wins hearts of the neutral observers. It doesn’t matter if you lose the argument. You will have the last laugh.
Avoid him; also don’t waste your efforts in making him happy
You will have an unprecedented peace of mind when an unreasonable leaves you. It is very rude and impolite to say this. You don’t have all day to treat him with good will when all you get back is contempt and disrespect. You don’t need to deal with that stuff. The efforts are in vain. Just concentrate on what you have to do and get on with it.
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Be kind but be firm
Be kind to them and being soft will certainly help things to some extent. On the other side, if you are rude and mean, it gives the person a room to criticize you. So be firm and stay clear. Speak less and be a patient listener. Think well and take the most appropriate decision.
And lastly, do not let him affect you in possible manner. Just let him say what he wants to say. Be wise and stay happy!
