Life is for living, not to make judgments or to make baseless comparisons with significant others. Expectations and judgments make it hard for you to live life and follow your dreams. Nothing is actually good or bad. The moment you start making comparisons, things take a new turn and you get into the trap of a life that never exists. Take life as it comes and cultivate happiness that brings along peace of mind. Here are a few tips that can help your synthesize happiness.
Take off your glasses of judgment
Everything is beautiful the way it is if you stop judging things as good or bad. If you start looking at your life from broader perspective you would have nothing to complain about since life has everything that can help you life a complete life. Bad things happen so that you can value good things in your life. People are never good or bad, they are what their habits make them. Life goes on, no matter how you feel about things that happen around you, nothing can change the ways of universe. Live life the way it comes to you.
The supreme connection
When you get attached to the people, things and emotions you are bound to get hurt since everything is meant to change. Nothing remains forever. When you lose your loved ones or things that make you feel good about yourself, you feel terrible. Do not get attached with people or things around you. It does not mean that you do not care for your loved ones but on the contrary, it means a divine connection that is far beyond the physical proximity. The truth is that you can always feel the presence of your loved ones even when after their demise, can’t you?
Minimize your expectations
Your expectations get you into the trap of desires, which eventually steal your happiness. If you do not expect others to behave in a certain way or do not wish circumstances could turn in your favor, nothing could keep you from living a happy life.
Nothing is permanent except change. You cannot deny the reality since there are things that are far beyond your control and a desire to control them leads you to disappointment. Learn to accept the change. Change is never good or bad. It is just the way you perceive it that make it look good or bad. The sooner you accept the change the easier it gets to take your life in the right direction. You cannot control things around you but you can certainly control the way your react back. Take it easy. Do not hold yourself or anyone else responsible for your sufferings.
See the world in new light
Have you ever observed the behavior of kids? They are always game for everything. They do not fear anything as everything brings along beautiful surprise for them. Kids always live life on their own terms without trying to be someone else unlike their elders. They are happy the way they are born and have no issue with their height, weight or color of skin. If you embrace the inner child, life could be so much fun since everything in the world is simply divine.
Know yourself even better
You are above everything else. Practice meditation to known your true self. You work wonders when you come face to face with the strengths you possess. You are a unique individual who has the ability to set new standards of success and to cultivate happiness regardless of what life offers you.
You are beyond all troubles and sufferings if you get rid of the habit of judging everything that goes around you. Rise above negativity and follow your instincts to live life to the fullest.