Family members form the part and parcel of a prosperous, healthy and happy living at home. Blessed are the families in which the members live in relative peace and harmony and such families always prosper.
Give all the members top priority over all other things in life
Family members should always be given top most priority over other things in life as this would give them a feeling of respect, care, affection, love and importance. This is the best possible way one can keep all the family members contended and happy. Since all of them love you so much and care for you every time, they deserve a lot of love, care and respect in return and this keeps the things smooth sailing for everyone in the family. No matter how busy one is at work or in business, the importance of family members should never be taken for granted. One should always care for even the minute thing they would need or require as it is you they have always looked up to. There should be equal respect for everyone in the family, regardless of age, sex or relation. Treat and respect your parents, wife, children and siblings equally. This is a great mantra for a happy and successful family life.
Welcome and respect all suggestions
You should always prepare yourself and be ready to welcome all the valuable suggestions given by the family members for family matters as well as matters at work. This would not only provide you options to explore and think about but would greatly affect the mindset of all the family members in a positive manner. They would rather feel their importance in all the matters of the family and your personal life as well. Respecting them in this way would be an honor from your side. Share and discuss all the matters with them so that they get a know how about various things which are being planned by you for running the family more successfully. Here, they can add various suggestions and ideas which could really prove beneficial for future planning. This welcome change would truly bear good and positive response from all the family members at all points of time.
Stand with them against all odds
Come what may; always be supportive to your family members in all odd and awkward situations. This would not only increase their confidence in you but they would always look up to you for various ideas and suggestions. Always remember that they need your support and company more than anything else. Make them realize that you do care for them at every step of life and are ready to stand with them against all odds. Talk to them; discuss the difficulty areas, problems and concerns. This would allow you to suggest them various possible solutions so as to come out of the problem at the earliest. The more concern you show towards them, more contended they would be and so would be the family life. No problem is as big as it is thought to be and this should always be your suggestion to the family members who feel distressed and sad because of something wrong in personal life or at work.
Never let any family dispute damage the family life and happiness
There are disputes in every family over something or the other and if not taken care of timely as well as properly, these can lead to worst situations in the family. Always try to handle the family disputes in a witty, reasonable and genuine manner. Never let any dispute or your decision hurt any of the family member’s feeling. Always remember, respecting and understanding the feelings of every family member is equally important. In case you respect one family member in the family and hurt the other because of any incorrect decision at your end, make sure that this is rectified as early as possible. Every member of the family is equally important and same concern should be shown for each one of them.
Care for their demands and needs
This is really important. Never hurt any family member just because you are not able to fulfill his/her needs. Rather, if you can’t afford those needs, talk to them and make them understand the reasons why you are not able to do so. Do not hesitate in sharing any financial problems or difficulties if at any point you really need to do so. Your family members are your best buddies and would understand you much faster as well as easily. But yes, if you can really fulfill their demands and needs which are truly genuine, go ahead and do it for them. Never hurt them because of your bad mood or if something bad happened back at work.
