People say that women are confused personalities and that they are completely unaware of what they exactly want. Though, women are undoubtedly confused and silly, guys can be quite confusing too. Over the years it has quite been a challenge to understand for girls as to what the guys really want from them. So here are some tips for girls on how to deal with boys.
The flirting guy
Believe it or not, the one thing that girls would always feel jittery and giggle over is when a guy is trying his best to get around with her. Girls would discuss about how annoying that becomes with her girlfriends but they secretly admire it. So dealing with such heart-melting boys should not be much of a pain, but again the pattern of dealing depends on your present status. If you are already hooked to someone, you need to be stricter in your dealings with him or else you might have to end your relationship with the present guy. Whereas on the other side, if you really feel that flirting is going way beyond the limit, confront and tell it to him that it makes you uncomfortable. This will help to make things simpler.
The pinocchio oneâs
All the girls would have wished at least once, that their boyfriends were born as Pinocchio. Yet, unfortunately the tales are never turned into reality. Many a times, you come across men who have a mysterious disease of lying excessively, even if the situation doesnât call for it. For such boys, one has to come up with a tough mechanism of knowing why and from where comes these bluffing. It is very important to know whether the reason behind all his lies is a valid one, as his bluffing can be cured then. Let the guy know that you are ready to pull him off from this habit, as it might get obnoxious for many of your friends. But if the reasons are unnecessary and vague for such bluffing, which do not have any scope of improvement, donât fiddle around with the guy much.
Wise guys
Wise men are said to be more preferred than the hot-smoky ones; they are the most sought ones in all the social places and reputed organizations. And this is why you like many of these geeks, since they work as a âWalking-Googleâ. However, things become different when you are corrected by him every now and then, and you apparently get annoyed by this habit of his. It can be anything, his ego, his jealousy towards any other guy you are close to or him not really knowing this habit. This is why all you would want him to do when beside you, is to shut up. But if that doesnât happen, then you simply should stop bothering yourself by not thinking about it. Or you could do any of these: ignore or agree.
Burning men
The tendency to get jealous is quite normal, be it in the case of men or women. Jealousy till some extent is cute and acceptable but not if it ruins the relation between the two of you. This insecure behavior calls for a check, because having an insecure and fearful guy burning besides lowers the ladyâs interest in him as well as the relationship. There remains a very thin line between possessiveness and jealousy, and girls need to understand themselves and their value for practical realization. If the guyâs possessiveness creates a lack of trust between you two even after multiple conversations and fights, itâs time for both of you to move ahead.
Emotionally Immature
Men are said to be more sensitive and emotional jerks amongst the two genders but at the same time many of them are incapable of handling their moods in the right manner. The guys get so paranoid with a problem that they ultimately end up in foot-in-the-mouth situations, where both the timing and the place for their expression seem fatal! For this kind of situations that possibly creates issues in a relationship, it is quite necessary that the girl is in a position where he can share everything with her. Donât let the emotional imbalance create a conflict in between you both; instead give your heart in understanding him. Since emotional men are the most loyal ones too, you donât want to miss out a chance on them for sure.
