Some suggestions that can save your marriage if you are on the brink

Divorce was once a rare occurrence but today unfortunately has become a commonplace thing. This very clearly indicates that many couples today are letting negativity and conflicts overpower their bond and love for each other.

Enjoying a sunny wedding day

Disagreements and conflicts take place in almost every relationship but wiser couples get away with them, while the not so wiser ones let the anger build up to a level when differences between them grow into irreconcilable differences.

Why let such a thing happen, when you had married your mate to spend your entire life with and not to move out of it in the middle. If you are stuck in a similar situation, please do not let divorce even enter your mind and take these steps to preserve your marriage, because it is worth it.

Calm down, relax and think

The man shouts at the woman

The mere thought of divorce makes people anxious, let alone actually making it happen. This bad phase would be making you super tended and you know what, in such an anxious state you cannot be in a position that you take a lucrative life decision. Any decision taken by you in such a state would be wrong that will make you regret later.

Therefore, take out time, sit with your partner and discuss everything with a cool mind and a heart that has nothing against each other. Think about yourself, your partner, your family, and most importantly your children, who are innocent but will suffer the most. A cool mind will definitely show you the correct path and you will manage to save your marriage.

Change your habit

Young Couple Quarreling

No couple decides to divorce their marriage in a day, rather the negativity that grows everyday owing to the shortcomings of both partners makes a couple part their ways. You and your partner are too egoistic that you prefer lingering on the conflicts and issues and not solve them as soon as they appear.

This way, you both start giving place to grudges in place of love for each other in your hearts and then it becomes impossible to avoid the inevitable, i.e. divorce. Knowing all this, now onwards you know what you are supposed to do if you want to save your married life.

Giving it all that it takes

happy young couple on vacation by the sea

Sometimes marriage does not continue the way you want it owing to the behavioral changes that come with time in both the partners. Try to go back in the initial days of your marriage, even before that, i.e. your courtship days. Try to remember what made both of you fall in love with each other, what was that attracted you both towards each other so much that you both decided to get married.

Once you get the answer, try to bring those same old qualities in you, reflect them and see what level of change your dying relationship experiences. You both will experience a newfound love and slowly all the differences will start disappearing because now you both are ready to give your relationship what it takes.

Learn to understand each other

Bad relationship concept. Man and woman in disagreement. Young couple after quarrel sitting on sofa back to back

Although I should not be mentioning this particular point here because understanding between partners is something a relationship cannot do without, and you being a couple know this already. However, if things between you and your partner have taken a wrong turn and your relationship has reached the brink of divorce then it speaks volumes of the absence of ideal understanding between you and your partner.

You both have to make efforts to find what your partner wants, what he likes, dislikes, some of which he expresses and some he expects you to understand on your own. Understanding your partner is no rocket science, so try to do it effortlessly.

Marriage is not about a couple but the entire family, and so is divorce. Therefore, try to make every effort to preserve your marriage.

Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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