Fear of unfaithfulness
Most partners fear that they will be played by the other partner, which is not healthy. They form a perception about this and wait for an action, for example a phone call from his friend from the opposite gender, to confirm their instincts. This is wrong, and has ruined many relationships.
Fear of a break-up
This is mostly caused by poor self-esteem and negative energy. Because of this fear, most partners do not allow themselves to love fully and freely for fear of deep heartbreak and this hinders love growth. One should set the right attitude and be optimistic about the future of the relationship.
Fear that you are not adequate for you partner
Some fear that they are less educated than their partners, less attractive to them, too poor or rich, belonging to a lower or higher social class or maybe they are over or under weight to date the other person. This feeling of inadequacy is brought by self-esteem too. At all times, one should set the right mind set. If your partner found it fit to have you in his/her life, it was because he/she found you adequate for their self. Stop worrying and upgrade what you think makes you inadequate for him/her.
His/her friends do not endorse you for him
The beauty of something is in the eyes of the beholder. His/her friends are third parties to the relationship. If he chose to have you, it was because you were fit to be his. People have different perceptions of the same situation and thus mind your own business. While others think you befit him, others think you don’t. What matters is the love between the two of you.
Your partner is not attracted to you anymore
Overtime, people get used to one another and age deteriorates the way lovers express romance for one another. Childbirth and rearing, and too much work eat all energy and may make one add extra weight. Regular exercise and good diet helps one keep fit. Make a series of dates to revive your romance and always find special time for just the two of you.
Too much or less intercourse
Different people have different levels of libido and thus different sex drives. It is best when partners completely and sufficiently satisfy one another. Communication is the key here; let your partner know what you feel about it. Certain food types and exercise can help boost sex drive. Avoid stress and relax. Love your partner and love yourself.
