The process of dealing with any jealous person needs a balanced and systematic persuasion. The personalized approaches and sometimes ignorance can offer enough solution to such dealings.
Mode of confrontation
For an instance of jealousy, it is necessary to open space for confrontation. You need to confront the jealous person and make him/her aware of the fact that you do not appreciate him/her in the process of making any kind of petty comments or remarks. Jealousy can lead to arrogance and irksome nature in the jealous person. However, for his/her goodness, you need to follow some strict ways of making him/her come out of it. Confrontation though can appear as a strict means yet at times is very helpful if offered in a balanced way. You must attain enough trust and faith from the jealous person before approaching the mode of confrontation.
Assist in handling jealousy
With a very mild voice, you must make the jealous person understand the value of your relationship with him/her instead of pursuing jealousy for some mere cause. In case you feel that both of you need to talk about the matter of jealousy, it is suggested to have âface to faceâ conversation as against any media. A very friendly and trustworthy conversation can help a lot in getting rid of jealousy for the other person. Be very careful of not hurting the jealous person while initiating the conversation. In case of materialistic mode of jealousies, always help the jealous person to understand other positive things in him than those materialistic objects. By assisting with self realization you will be able to make the jealous person understand his personalized value to the edge of genuineness and that will make him/her feel good.
Encourage for building confidence
Sometimes, a jealous person faces inferiority complex and that harms his/her ego. In such instance, approach him/her with positive waves and try to encourage and learn something from him/her, so that he/she feels good about himself/herself. As the jealous person will start feeling good about his skills, he will be able to get rid of his jealous instinct. With your friendly approach, the jealous person will automatically understand that every person is an admixture of both advantages and limitations, which need to be dealt properly. Dealing with a jealous ego is definitely a tough job and you can help the person by regularly asking him about his levels of efforts and efficiencies. It is necessary to appreciate the same with authenticity rather than mere fake appreciation. Implication of fake appreciation can lead the jealous person to a level of misunderstanding about the self and that can turn up dangerous. So just be careful while appreciating a jealous person and remain genuine with your words.
Offer space to generate self-assessment
In case you succeed in building a friendly platform with the jealous person, assist him in understanding the minor tactics of excellence. By understanding personal limitations, the jealous person will attain enough efficiency in terms of resolving the hurdles that are leading to specific content of jealousy. You can offer the room for analyzing and assessing personal status of the jealous person, in order to overcome his/her limitations. This is a very positive approach and will make him/her deal with all the other kinds of jealousy in the same way. Self realization about a specific jealous-creating topic is the best way to resolve it. With your assistance and efforts, the person will be able to attain excellence and at the same time will never try to get into the verge of severe competitiveness, that too beyond his/her limitations.
Ignore and manage to have enough patience
Even after offering lots of scope of managing with jealousy, there are some people who cannot get rid of it. In such instance, ignore and negate these kinds of people. Enjoy your personal life and never get in touch with these people regarding the specific subject of jealousy. There can be some situation when you will be facing the jealous person and in such condition just offer your necessary performance and do not interrupt or instruct that person. Sometimes, ignorance helps in lowering down your profile and that assist the other person in getting rid of the sense of jealousy in general. You must have the idea that a jealous person can harm you at any point of time and thus some extra cautiousness and a dignified profile can help you in attaining somewhat safety zone. Maintaining a low profile can also help you in getting a more secured level from the jealous person and you will be able to get away from any risk of his/her jealousy.
