What is going to happen in future is something that keeps us worried all the time. Our present gets affected with the fear of future. You really need to learn the art of living in the moment, if you are one of those who do not enjoy the lovely moments they spend with their loved ones, since the fear of future never lets them breathe freely.
Future may or may not be there
Each one of us has a different definition of being happy. In future, having a lot of money, good job or materialistic stuff probably would give us happiness. However, at present you don’t really know that future is going to be there. All what you have on your mind could only be the result of your state of your mind. When you are happy, you think positive whereas negativity leaves you with hopelessness. Therefore, it hardly makes a sense. We do not need to travel to future to be happy or sad. It is just that we need to make a choice to be happy or sad at this moment.
Hard times come and go
What we actually are worried about something that never really happens and even if it comes true, it will take care of itself as things have been resolving in past. You should keep yourself prepared for the future but getting anxious over things without any reason is senseless.
Learn to appreciate
What makes you sure, that even after getting all what you want you would be content. What if the attitude of getting tensed becomes you habit. If you can’t appreciate today, you would not be able to appreciate tomorrow, no matter how appealing it turns out to be. If you act a certain way it turns into your habit. So simply learn to appreciate what you have, as the way you look at things matter a lot.
Positive frame of mind
You have to be a little anxious to be keep yourself on toes, but getting anxious and that too without any reason would bring down you level of productivity. No one can think of a good solution for a problem if the brain is full of negative ideas. It is useless getting worried about the things you know you would take care of and getting anxious about things, which are beyond your control, would be without any solution. Keep yourself free from all the negative ideas would help you in making better decisions. Even in worst case scenario giving your best is enough, you can’ t do better than that, can you?
Feed your mind
Feeding your mind with good thoughts would result in good results and feeding it with negativity would end up leaving you with negative results. Those who curse their fate day and night attract negativity in their lives.
Everything in life requires practice. Practice living in the moment for a few days and you would see yourself living happily without getting worried about future and with no regrets of past.