Your habits form your personality. Most of the time you are not even aware of the harmful effects that your everyday habit is capable of, since your hardly pay attention to them. Some of these habits prove to be harmful not only to our zeal of doing something but also to your happiness.
Most of us always try to find one or the other way to look beautiful and attractive. Is it the correct definition of beauty? How exactly would you define your good looks? Is it the way you feel about the world or others, or simply putting on a face that hardly defines you? Someone who looks attractive and appealing may not be one of those who understand you to the core. It is the feeling and emotions that we share with our loved ones that make them beautiful, not the color of the skin or an attractive face.
The intention to change the world overnight
Even if you want to bring about some positive changes in the world or in your own life, it would not be possible overnight. An intention to do this would only give you a frustrated self. Start with small efforts resulting in small changes. Smile when you want to make someone smile. This is the subtle way to bring about a positive change in life.
Hold on to those who hurt you
When you find it hard to swallow the hard realities of life, you start living with a lie. Let go all those who do not feel the same way you feel for them. It will not only relax your mind but also let you face the reality, no matter how hard that would be.
Worries and fears
Sometimes things you keep worrying about are not as harmful as you make them by constantly thinking over them. Someday, when you look back you see that all things that you thought were potential threats did not really mean anything. Your constant thoughts about them troubled you. Life has to go on, so why not live it the way it comes to you.
Grudges and hatred
You start hating someone who hurt you or did not live up to your expectations. This is a simple theory but when you start hating someone, it eventually fills your own heart with hatred. You hate the weather, life, strangers all around you and eventually you end up having your own self. Why not disconnect yourself, instead of hatred.
Working for a paycheck
You can’t really be a happy person if you work only to get a paycheck. Paycheck solves your financial issues. Does it keep you happy for a long time? Working just for the sake of working can’t bring the happiness in your life. You don’t have to be die heart fan of your work but you have to be at least interested in your job. Do not stop looking for your kind of a job if your do not feel interested in your work.
“When the perfect time will arrive, I would be on the top of the world.” No one ever gets that perfect moment, since it never really exists. Moments are not perfect; you make them perfect by willingness to act even in not so perfect moment. Learn to use the imperfections of life in your favor.
Everyone has a story of their own. Do not get so impressed by their success story that you forget to write your own. Get rid of the habits that limit your abilities.