Doubts that you have about your own self could make it difficult for you to make decisions in life since you are not sure about you own ways of living a life. Once you accept your real self, you get control of your life. You can chose to make better decisions in life.
You can easily invest the time you spend in doubting your decisions to focus at the task. Self-doubt is quite natural but if can prove to be disaster if your start giving more value to the decisions of the other people. It wastes a lot of time and energy, which you can invest to do better things in life. Looking at someone else’s face to make a decision of your own life itself sounds so miserable.
You give birth to strong relationships around you since the real you gets the real acceptance from others. This acceptance does not fade away with time, as it is genuine. The people who value your real self always be there at the time of need and stand by you through all thick and thin. They not only celebrate your success with you but also stay by your side when you go through a rough time.
When you act yourself, people around you expect accordingly. You do not feel the pressure to live up to the expectations that you have set as someone who is not your actual self. This is something which makes you feel liberated and lets you live life your way, as a real you.
Chase what you love
When you accept the real self, you can chase your dreams without the fear of any judgments by others. You enjoy your life being honest to yourself and your dreams too. Isn’t that great?
You do not get the real love from others when you don’t act yourself. The desire to get acceptance from others turn you into someone who gets acceptance, but even this acceptance is not real at all. The genuine you get the real love from others and it stays there forever.
The amazing you
Each one follows someone else as you feel that this is something, which will get you the acceptance from all. However, deep down inside, all are different but superb in our own way. When you realize this, you turn into an amazing person each passing day. You start loving yourself and understand that you are worth something great. You realize that you deserve the best.
The weird you
Have you ever noticed that those who act cool are the people who actually are weird? However, they listen to everyone but they always do what their heart tells them to do. Cool people are actually weird for most others. World needs more of these weird but cool people who at least have an identity of their own since they are not a part of the crowd.
The fear of failure and a hope to get support from others turn you into someone who follows others. Make your own separate identity as someone who has their own way getting things done. Accept your real self, even if you don’t get acceptance you would be a happy person at the end of the day.