Wise people say that life is not perfect, as it is laden with a fair share of burdens and imperfections that makes it a challenging path to follow. They make life more meaningful and interesting, which otherwise would have been a dull and a monotonous path in the absence of challenges. Even a love life is also a mix of good times and low times.
The low times make a relationship miserable, so what is it that you can do to make your love life smooth and better. Well, one option is the 80-20 rule that you can apply to your love life and make it better than ever before. It is a rule that calls for minimal efforts to make your relation so much better.
When you start a love relationship with someone, the initial feeling that you get is the full satisfaction and happiness. However, as the time passes, you both start finding issues of compatibility in each other that were absent in the initial days of your romance. For instance, you start finding that your partner does not share common interest in the movies, songs, or the places you chose to go out on a vacation. All these differences are absolutely normal, as no two individuals can be the same.
No matter how deep you both are in love with each other, still you can never share exact interests; there will be differences for sure. Not many couples take these differences in a healthy way and they start thinking that in future the difference in their likes and opinions will create a problem between them and some couples sadly part their ways because they are unaware that these differences are repairable. They are ignorant of the magic tool that they can use to restore lost love and connectivity to their relationship.
The wonder tool that is of great help to repair love relationships is the 80-20 rule. Although by origin, this 80-20 rule or the Pareto Principle is an economical model but it comfortably fits into a love relationship too. This rule in love relationships goes like the 80 percent of the conflicts and the frustrations in a love relationship are there due to the 20 percent problems. If you manage to find out the real nature and the origin of those 20 percent problems in your love life then you can easily eliminate the 80 percent of the frustration and tensions.
Behaviors like taking too long to get ready, laziness, giving too much time and importance to other friends, coming home late, clumsy habits, and lack of romance are some of the common habits that bring tension between couples. According to the 80-20 rule, you first need to find out the root cause of all the tensions between you and your partner. Like in all the above problems, the root cause is ignorance. You feel that your partner ignores you and this is why every action of theirs hurt you, because you tend to think that way.
The 80-20 rule says that stop wasting time worrying about the 80 percent things that annoy you, rather make some efforts and find out the root cause that creates all the 80 percent problems. Ask yourself that what is it that is bringing a negative change in your relation, rather than fighting with your partner over the things that hurt you. Reach the bottom of the problem and get rid of it once and for all. This way, the 80-20 rule teaches lovers to respect and understand the things that matter most in a love life, and to enjoy healthy relationships.
