Women are the most amazing and sensitive creatures on this planet. If you really want to deal with them all that you have to learn is to respect and love them. Here are some things that you may try out.
Keep aside the good guy image
Never try to over pose in front of a woman. You are bound to be caught in the long run. If you are genuinely interested and want to earn affection of a woman, all you have to do is try to be your natural self. If she feels that there is something wrong in you that is bothering her, she will let you know. Then the decision power lies in you if you want to change it or not. But till that happens always maintain your natural composed personality. There is absolutely no use in starting something that you cannot carry forward. Let her know the person who you really are. By being too affectionate and trying to act in too much good way you are actually embarking on something that is sure to end in a disaster.
Don’t try too hard
The rule is very simple here. If a woman likes you then she truly does but if she doesnât then there is nothing that you can do about it. The rule is simple but pretty difficult to follow. If you try too hard to make a woman like you, all you are doing is making her feel that you are getting on her nerves. Women usually avoid such men. The best way is introduce yourself and stay normal. You will come to know if the woman is interested in you or not. Then proceed as required. There is no use in wasting time and your precious emotional moments for something that is not bound to happen.
Treat women with respect
Liking a women is good and loving is better but there is something that is the best. That is treat women with respect. Women hate the fact that they are being taken as granted. Every individual has a view point and so do women. It would not hurt anyone to listen to them. It is very common to take a woman for granted as you become well versed with her. Never do this mistake. Women are sensitive creatures and get hurt very soon. Besides if someone does the same with a man, it is obvious that he would not like it in any way. The same is true for a woman also. Give her the respect she deserves and then you would not have to deal with her but rather enjoy being with her.
Acknowledge her presence everywhere
Women like a little attention and it is very little effort that it takes to give it to them. You have to deal with women at workplace, social gatherings or even personal meeting. Acknowledge that she is there. Do small gestures like standing when she joins the group, opening the car door for her or pulling her a chair in a meeting. They are non time taking tasks but will value greatly in the eyes of a woman. In any kind of social gathering if a woman joins in give her time to speak or ask her view point about the conversation going on. Just your awareness that she is there in a place will add value to your relationship with any women be it social, professional or personal.
Show interest, participate in her hobbies
Every woman has some kind of hobbies. The most common ones being reading, shopping, movies and so on. Any time you feel that a conversation is going way out of control for you or if you foresee a fight then the best way is to calm down and turn the topic slowly towards her hobby. Show genuine interest and listen to what they are saying. Women are good at talking and if they find a subject that they are very confident conversing on then they will take interest in conversation. If time permits and if your liabilities towards other activities are not too much, then you may also try to be a part of some of them. You may actually offer to watch a movie or help her in shopping sometime. If that is too much to ask you may at least find time to do some amount of pr reading so that you can actively participate in their discussion. When there is a feeling that you are one like her then you will feel it very easy to find acceptance with her.
