There are several ways to deal with a man and based on the context the demands and expectations vary. But, there are some general guidelines that will help in keeping men happy in all situations. Take a look at how you can go about it.
Men need appreciation
What a man is always looking for is appreciation for whatever he does. A woman who can appreciate every little thing a man does will give him a lot of happiness and security. All men need confidence and as women, we must understand this need for being recognized as best and acceptance and approval of what they do earnestly. If you find that your man has tried to make you happy, has tried hard to be successful, has been struggling and have reached heights unimaginable, ensure that you appreciate his every effort and treat him with respect and trust. Trusting in your man and appreciating the little gestures that he does is all a man need to remain happy in a relationship and make you happy as well. If it is a co worker or a boss, appreciating his work, intelligence and perseverance will help you earn good points with him and he will always be a joy to work with.
Give them love and care
All men are essentially kids trapped in a macho body and hence they want to be showered with abundant love, care, hugs, kisses and pampered. Though many of them deny this as they want to look manly, all women will truly admit that men are always looking for some love and a little extra care from their female partners, whether it is work or family life or relationships. Thus, a woman who is always inquiring after a manâs health, his family, work etc. will always be cherished and respected by men. In relationships, this would translate as a wifeâs love and care in the form of tending to his taste buds, taking care of his physical and emotional needs, taking care of his needs like ironing his clothes, polishing his shoes, preparing his favorite dishes, listening to his woes and what not. All these simple things put together will lead to abundant love and care and women who are aware of these needs will always have a happy man by her side.
Lots of physical intimacy
In relationships, men need physical intimacy. Women find this difficult to admit. But, whether a man loves a woman or is just attracted to her or is just trying to flirt with her, getting physically intimate is always there at the back of their mind. Men are created in such a way that they have a keen sense of awareness about all women, especially beautiful women and instinctively want to get physically satisfied. While most men are also good enough to suppress their urges, a woman who understands his sexual urges and gives him lot of pleasure will definitely be on top of his good books. Be ready, willing and happy to please him as a partner or wife and you have your man always by your side, craving and asking for more.
Humour and energy wins hands down
Men generally dislike boredom and monotony and hence a woman who is very energetic and humorous can immediately arouse their interest and keep them interested as well. It is also true that men like women who are naturally subdued and a little mysterious. However, humor is something which all of us love and a woman who can tickle a manâs funny bone and keep his energy levels high with her bubbly attitude and spirit to live will keep him interested and happy. But, it must also be noted that such open and extroverted behavior from women is not always acceptable as men need their space and time to be alone. Do not rub your humor into them at the wrong time and they can turn extremely unpleasant as well.
Never try to nag them
Men hate to be nagged and here is where wives make a big mistake. They make men run around like a donkey, put them off with their attitude, touch their ego, make them feel like a fool with their insinuations and remarks and hate them for every little thing they do. Keep away from nagging and remain pleasant, approachable and happy when men approach you or get back from work and you have winded up their day in the most perfect manner. Nagging can cause men to stay away from you and ultimately you will be the loser.
