Dr Prem Life A Great Life Logo-R

How to deal with your boyfriend

How to deal with your boyfriend

Nearly every girl in a relationship faces some problems with her boyfriend at one time or the other. It is very rare after all, that a couple doesn’t run into problems at some point of time. So, if you do recognize your problem ahead of time, you will have a better chance of resolving it with him.

Dealing with communication gap

The most common relationship problem that couples face start from poor communication skills. Experts say that most of the couples fight because they have a communication gap. In today’s world, every one of us is so busy with our own lives that we often forget devoting a little time to our partners from our busy schedule. If you are always occupied with you work, checking your phone, watching a fashion show over television or reading the vanity section in magazine, you cannot communicate well with your partner, which may lead to lack of communication between you and your boyfriend. He might feel alone and neglected which will further result in misunderstandings between you and him. If this is indeed the case, then you need to step back and devote a little of your precious time with him. Take out time for him, even if you two are living together put your phones on vibration and let the voicemail take your calls. Always remember that listening is the most important part of communication. Listen to your partner and talk about your problems in a healthy way.

Dealing with ignoring boyfriend

It is really painful if the person you love, starts ignoring you and make you feel alone and neglected. But crying over the feeling of loneliness is not going to be of any good. Remember the beautiful lines “Let your love go and if it is a true love, then it will come back”? If your boyfriend loves you truly, he will certainly come back, but if he continues ignoring you, then he is not worth your time and it is best to move on. You do not need to sit around and feel sorry for yourself, neither you do have to wonder what went wrong, where was your fault and what all you can do to make things fine again. You do not realize but there are plenty of good men who are waiting to talk to your everyday. Stand up for yourself and show him that there is absolutely no reason why he should ignore you or make you feel unimportant.

Dealing with depressed boyfriend

Everyone in the world faces some sad times. Whatever reasons there may be, people cannot be happy and joyful always. If you feel your boyfriend is sad and depressed, then you should try to understand the cause. There might be a number of reasons for his depression. Talk to him and try to find the source of the problem. Find out if he needs you or not. You might be very caring and close to him but if his problem is old then he might need some professional help. The problem might be related to his job, his childhood problems or he might be fed up of his daily life. So, learn to recognize when he is sad and try to cheer him up by involving him in some conversation or activities that you both enjoy doing together and drag him out of the problem.

Think before taking a decision

Discovering that your boyfriend, whom you had been trusting blindly all this time is cheating on you, is extremely hard and painful to deal with, especially when he has become a very important part of your life. If you find out that your boyfriend is cheating on you, then the foremost thought that will come to your mind will be walking out of the relationship. But this may not put an end on his cheating ways. Rather than taking an impulsive decision to break up with him, try to consider a few ways by which you can deal with the cheating ways of your boyfriend. Make him realize his mistake and do not give any room to self-doubt. It will not only hamper your self-esteem but also stop you from thinking straight into the problem. The pain and guilt of being cheated by him will be intense without any doubt, but crying over it will not make the situation any better.

Spend quality time with him

Sometimes spending less time together can result in some misunderstandings between couples. If your busy lives are the only reason (and there is else nothing wrong in the relationship), then it is very easy to make it happy and perfect again. If you know that your boyfriend loves you a lot but he feels left alone, then you must give him some quality time and make him feel happy and safe. Tell him that you love him and be there for him whenever he needs you. Support him, but do not make him feel un-manly. Spend time with him, but at the same moment give him his space and acknowledge that he has a private life and other friends also. It is absolutely not fair to be passively mad at him if it is not his fault. If you are sad about something, then talk to him even if you do not feel like sharing.

Recent Articles:

Scroll to Top