Facing the instances of bad behavior is a difficult task for all those people who are much concerned about their self respect and are more concerned about their social image. As against these circumstances, people still face bad behavior in private and public. Dealing with unwanted bad behavior thus needs some preparations.
Handle the embarrassment with smartness
Bad behavior can turn embarrassing and at the same time presence of public makes it problematic to handle. In order to deal with it, take the help of your partner or friend to ignore the situation and leave the place at the earliest. Try to ignore whatever is being said. It is necessary not to get into the argument or to resemble the person who is actually acting insane. Your silence and ignorance can be the best defensive tools to fight against the embarrassment that follows the unpredictable bad behavior.
Speak out some cool sentences
Facing bad behavior must get well analyzed by you before responding to it. Instead of getting embarrassed, just try to judge whether that behavior is acceptable or not. In case it turns up to be unacceptable, declare your anger straight away. In public do not get arrogant, just say “Your words of disrespectfulness is not appreciated” or “Are you really comfortable with such kind of behavior” or “Donât you think your behavior reflects your family background“. These kinds of statements usually make the person performing bad behavior go numb. However, if he still continues with the unacceptable behavior then just ignore or leave the place. The basic idea is to get out of the situation or to speak up things that make the person realize his fault.
Stay calm and patient
To respond to some complicated bad behavior, where the speaker never tries to listen to you, just remain calm and patient. In most of the cases, if the person is older than you then the age factor turns up as a biggest hurdle. However, with kindness and by not offering any personal attachment, you can very well make the adult feel that you are offended with him. You need to remain calm and kind. Your responsibility is to offer assertive responses towards bad behavior of an adult and get away from the instance without making any aggressive note. In case you cannot tolerate the situation, just say âcan you just excuse me, I am not feeling comfortable hereâ or âwould you mind to give me some personal spaceâ. To come across bad behavior, you must keep in mind that your arrogance can spoil your image, whereas your calm rejection in the situation will spoil the image of the other person in public.
Handling instances of being bullied
Getting bullied or facing bad behavior is more or less a very common situation. To deal with such instances, you can get defensive at the personal level. In case the bad behavior continues, you can always complain the authority. If the bad behavior is coming from some person who is actually authorized, then try to analyse the situation and get justified by having a discussion with him. On the other hand, report the instance to higher authority to prevent the same in the future. You should not get recess by bad behavior as it can affect your personality in the later life. Getting recessive to bad behavior or bully in other words, is harmful to oneâs personality and thus opposing the same must get justified.
Remain professional at workplace
Under the effect of globalization, the workplace environment is getting more prone to bad behavior. To prevent it at workplace, be sure of the corporate policies related to behavioral guidelines. Being aware of it makes you well armed with a defensive shield. Tolerance to some extent is definitely suggested to maintain office decorum, yet directions relate to disciplinary actions should also be considered if the bad behavior prevails. Bad behavior from the boss can be more difficult to handle than those received from the employees. In case of the boss, just make it clear that you are appointed for the benefit of the company and thus deserve equal respect. You can very lightly and with a smile, can say âI really appreciate your concern and expect to learn more professional approaches from youâ. You can use the word âprofessionalâ to mean decent and courteous behavior that too without being rude.
