There comes a time in each one’s life when you start feeling worthless. You try hard to change things in your surroundings but get disappointed. You start feeling unworthy of making achievements in life. The more you compare your own performance with all others around you the harder it gets to overcome the feeling. Life seems dull and hopeless. The million-dollar question is how to combat this feeling of not being good enough. Here are few tips to ease the pain deep down inside you:
You have your own identity
One can never compare him/her self with others since all have different circumstances and a different family background. You hardly make a true comparison if you fail to compare things that you are aware of along with those things that you know nothing about. Given the same circumstances, someone else would have given up but you still stand strong. You may not be a winner but have not given up yet. That is what matters the most.
You have an option to try
Things may be bad but not bad enough for you to try your level best. You must have experienced one of those days when you were not sure of success at all and things fell in place. Keep yourself positive and try hard to get success. Giving your best is the only option when you do not find a way out.
Chose to be happy
Your happiness largely depends upon the kind of choices you make. A beautiful day can bring along many reasons to be low and down if you start looking for negativity. Similarly, with a positive attitude you can chose to be happy and successful in life. Learn and witness the power of a positive self.
Failures and struggles make you wise
Each day of your life brings a beautiful gift along with it. Even when you fail, you learn things that enable you to make wiser choices. You have nothing to lose at the end of the day. You would certainly find it hard to think of a struggle that did not give you a learning to move on in life.
Only thing constant is change
Time changes, so does your life and its events. You get experiences and learn to handle your problems head on. Each moment you grow as a person and become more capable to achieve more in life. Do not give up since you never know what destiny has got in store for you.
Sneak a peek into your past
You must have made many achievements in the past, which prove you worthy of achieving even more. Make a list of achievements that you have made and stick that note on your mirror or refrigerator. It will motivate you to try harder and achieve your goals.
Work hard to get confident again
Do you try your level best to realize your dreams? If not, then you have no reason to complain or feel unworthy. Try hard since it takes great efforts to make great achievements in life. When you work hard, you love and respect yourself even more and the efforts you put in never go waste. Once you get that lost confidence back there is no looking back in life.
Success depends upon your desire to attain it
When you have burning desire to turn your dreams into reality there is nothing that can come between you and your dreams. When you want something real badly you work harder, do not get disappointed and stay focused during the course of achieving it. When you are consistent in your efforts hardships seem like milestones of success.
The people you look up to are those who have gone through all difficulties of their lives. They get wiser every time they face a tough time and use their lessons to move forward. Feeling of not being good enough is quite natural which can fade away with time if you do not lose sight of the positive aspects of your personality.