No baseless comparisons with others around, less or no regrets and a strange feeling of confidence, it feels great to be you. When you accept your true self, you no longer feel conscious that others are watching you each moment or you are not good looking like most others. Good or bad, you love yourself and feel proud to be you. The confidence gets shifted to your everyday life gradually. The benefits are enormous:
New opportunities knock on the door
Your corner of world seems full of opportunities when you accept yourself. Instead of trying to fix yourself, you start giving back to the society. It helps you bring out the best in you since you no longer have the fear of not getting an acceptance from all others. You love yourself and others, and are able to focus on your strengths to give your best. You can’t argue the fact that those who are not comfortable with themselves can’t utilize opportunities that come their way.
True self come out
Acceptance gives you the luxury to be yourself. You do not find yourself trying hard to keep everyone happy around you. You start focusing your energy on things you want to do the most, things that give you happiness. Your dress the way you want to, arrange your hair the way you love and above all, you love yourself. Each one of us is different and this is meant to be that way.
We all love to look at our best photographs, and feel motivated and good about ourselves. Imagine if you could get that happiness and motivation all the time. When you accept yourself, you learn to appreciate not only your looks but also the real person deep down inside you. You value each aspect of your personality be it your thoughts, intelligence or the human being in you.
You feel secure
Self-confidence plays a vital role in not only achieving success but also leading a happy life. Your self-confidence must not depend upon the positive comments and viewpoint of others. Each individual has unique talents and his/her abilities that do not actually rely upon positive or negative comments. You are what you are, regardless of what others think of you. When you love yourself, you are a truly confident person.
Learn to appreciate
Those who love themselves have all the time in the world to appreciate the beautiful gifts of Mother Nature. Unlike most others, they do not invest a lot of time trying to be perfect and that too for others around them. Nothing can be more painful then doubting your own ways when you are among a group of people.
Don’t compare yourself with others
When you are fully confident and aware of your abilities, you no longer feel a need o compare yourself with others around you. Such comparisons not only make you less confident but also influence your motivation negatively.
Adopt a positive state of mind
Our negative attitude if simply the result of comparisons we make with others and our inability to look deep within us. When you know what you truly are and accept yourself not only with your strengths but also with weaknesses, your happiness is in your own control. You tend to see everything in positive light and are at ease with yourself.
When your accept yourself you are able to love everyone around you and the result if they love your even more. You get no desire to compete with others but are full confident of your own skills and abilities. It feels your heart with joy to be yourself.