Stop feeling besieged to get back on track of happiness

Modern world of electronic gadgets and social media hardly gives you a moment to relax. You are always on a run and it becomes a routine of everyday life. There is hardly anyone who does not feel the need to sit back and relax, when you feel overwhelmed, you hardly move on life. You lose sight of the fact that this feeling is only momentary. It fades away as soon as you shift your attention to something else. Let us discuss a few tips that can help you take things easy when you feel overwhelmed:

Difficult task, first thing in the morning

Difficult task, first thing in the morning

Start your day early and reach your office an hour before so that you can have an overview of things to accomplish. Keep an hour to attend to the most difficult task of the day. You feel more relaxed and less burden when you know that you no longer have to struggle with the most difficult task. You can enjoy the day without any fear.

Live the day today

Live the day today

Do not divide your attention between today, yesterday and tomorrow. If you were unable to meet your targets yesterday, you can never enjoy your day today if you keep yesterday on your mind. When you divide your attention, you find it hard to focus and can never give your best no matter how hard you try.

Manage your self-talk

Manage your self-talk

Negative self-talk pulls you backward and disheartens you. Practice saying good things to yourself. Instead of using “I cannot do this,” say, “If I try I can do it.” It will not only reenergize you but will also strengthen your efforts and take them in a right direction.

Give your best rather than trying to be perfect

Give your best rather than trying to be perfect

Over-thinking always instigates self-doubts and makes it hard for you to focus your attention. Believe in giving your best instead of over analyzing things. The more time you spend thinking over a particular problem that harder it gets to find a solution. There is no one who is perfect in life and an effort to do so always gives you disappointment.

Know what is actually important

Know what is actually important

Decide what’s important and what’s not so that you don’t waste your time and energy on less important things. Get your priorities straight and keep important things on top of your list.

Be grateful for what you have

Be grateful for what you have

You may not have a big pile of money or a big car but it does not matter really. We all have something in our lives that makes us feel proud. Having valuable relationships and true friends have no comparison. It depends upon the way you look at your own life. Look at yourself from someone else’s point of view and count valuable things or people you have in your life. This would make you feel blessed and important.

Don’t be hard on yourself

Don’t be hard on yourself

Don’t judge yourself. You may not be the best one among the crowd but not worst one for sure. Having more than enough always creates problems for the person. If you were the smartest one of all, you would only be going crazy to channel your energy in the right direction. Love yourself the way you are.

Be a self-organized person

Be a self-organized person

Schedule your following day a day before. Make a list of the things that you have to accomplish the next day. Do not waste a single moment as it really makes a difference eventually.  Start your day with a positive approach and keep a to-do-list with you.

Keep yourself happy

Keep yourself happy

Focus on things that give you happiness. Spend quality time with your friends and loved ones. Read your favorite book and get inspired from lives of successful people since it always takes an inspiration to achieve new milestone in life.

Summary

Don’t try to make things perfect, it gives you a sense of disappointment and make you feel less successful in life. Plan each single moment you have and make the best use of your skills but do not forget that you are only a human.

Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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