Every individual has a crush at some point in his/her life. Individuals often ruin it by unconsciously sending some wrong hints to the crush. Therefore, knowing how to deal with your crush can be helpful if you are in such a situation.
Accept that you have a crush
Acceptance is the first step towards dealing with your crush. If you have a crush, admit it. Accept the fact and face it. Ignoring it will only make things difficult for you. If you have a crush on someone, and you are feeling shy, let your heart out to those friends with whom you are very close to. Talking with them will lighten your heart and make you feel more confident when dealing with the situation. If you do not accept the fact, then you will be confused about your emotions for the person and will not be able to communicate properly when the person on whom you have a crush will be around you. If you are the emotional types, then it is even more important for you to share your feelings with some close friend, otherwise you may tend to mess up things.
Do not overdo your body language
If you are serious about your crush and want to take the relation to a next level, then you can show your liking for the person with suitable body language. Do not overdo it or it may give negative hints to your crush. It may also lead to confusions between you two. For example, if you are talking with your crush, licking your lips may remind the person of kissing. You may not have meant that but in nervousness may have licked your lips. This may lead to confusion. If you are a girl, you can play with your hair. However, do not overdo it or your crush may think you are very nervous. When a guy is in front of his crush, he should make eye contact. This establishes a rapport and confidence. When your crush looks in your eyes, do not shy away. Instead maintain the eye contact. Smiling is another way of dealing with your crush. A little smile not only brightens your face but also gives a good hint to your crush about your liking for the individual. You can sprinkle in a little smile while talking or when your crush looks at you. A smile does wonders, more than even words can do. Your smile need not to be a huge grin. It can be just a little smile enough to assure your crush about your liking.
Give hints about your liking in the right way
You can give your crush subtle hints about your liking. You may have talked with your crush for a long time and you are still not comfortable taking to your crush a level ahead. In such cases, you can invite him to a movie where your other friends will also be going out with you. Put the invitation in such a way that your crush will feel that you want the person to come. You can also point out how much fun it will be as the person will be with such a big group. You can also stress on the point that your friends are all amiable and he will not feel alien. Moreover, you will be there with him. The fact that you are asking the person out with other friends and not alone will also make your crush feel pretty good. This will help in increasing the understanding between your crush and you. After going out with friends for a few more outings and if you are comfortable with your crush, you can go out for dates.
Communicate with your crush
Communication is the basis of all relations. Without good communication, individuals will fail to understand each other. Talking with your crush may be awkward in the beginning. However, you must understand the fact that if the person on whom you have a crush understands that you are trying to be on friendly terms, then the individual will try to talk with you. If you still keep quiet and feel shy, the person may feel that you are not comfortable in his company and this may spoil your chances with your crush. Therefore, initiate a conversation with your crush on topics of common interest. The topics should not be such that either you or your crush will have individual interests. Include topics which are common to both of you. This helps in better understanding and creates good rapport between both of you.
Be innovative in expressing
Just because your best friend took his or her crush to a particular movie does not mean that you will also have to do the same with your crush. Be innovative in expressing your interest. Try to find out about the places that your crush likes or about the personâs hobbies. This will help you to select the place of your meeting. For example, if your crush is an avid baseball fan, you can take the person to a baseball match. Or, if your crush has been mentioning the name of certain restaurant in conversations, you can take the person to that place. This will surprise her and she will be impressed with your originality. Think about places which both of you will enjoy and which would help you communicate well with each other. This can help you grow in your relationship, which is developing.
