Create an appropriate persona to perform better in your life

Having good personality does not necessarily mean that the person has to be good looking or must have big pile of money. A personality comprises of your abilities, interests, perceptions, behaviors, knowledge, beliefs, attitudes and other personality traits. Your personality makes you appealing to others and people tend to hold an opinion about you. It is however, not important to have good looks but good manners to make an everlasting impact on others. Here are a few tips that make helps you impress all others around you regardless of your looks.

Respect and value

Respect and value

It is important to value everything and everyone around you as people always have a special corner for you in their hearts if you make them feel valued. You certainly do not want to be around someone who tries to look you down or does not respect you as a person. One important thing is to give respect to all regardless of their financial status or wealth.

Confident self

Confident self

You do not want to be with someone who keeps looking at their feet while talking to you. You should always be confident and well behaved with others. Look them in their eyes and never try to avoid anyone no matter what your reasons are. Remember it is not the looks but the way you carry yourself that makes a difference at the end of the day.

Be helpful and kind

Be helpful and kind

Never hesitate to help others even if you have to try hard to assist them. It is a human tendency to remember others by their good deeds. The help that you offer to others always comes back to you. No matter how attractive you look if your don’t have a tendency to help others you always come as not so likable personality among all others.

Integrity

Integrity

Make a rule to speak the truth. It may hurt the feelings of someone but that person would always remember and value you for your honesty. It is very difficult to regain the same trust when it’s gone once.

 Be yourself, stay yourself

Be yourself, stay yourself

It is always good to improve on your weaknesses but you should never lose your own identity. People who change themselves in order to get acceptance from all others always fall on their face. You are a unique personality and it is better that way. You can never be complete even if you get enormous success at the cost of losing your inner self. Love the way you are born. Celebrate being yourself as you are one great individual who has no match.

Respect your opinion

Respect your opinion

Never look to someone else’s face when you have to make your decision. This bad habit can cost you your career, job and your individuality. Even if you have to stand alone to prove your point, do that. Nothing matters really, if you have a self-belief and faith in your efforts.

Beauty is skin deep, character and integrity is something that stays with you all your life. A beautiful face can get you more friends for sure but a beautiful self gets you true friends at every stage of your life.

Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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