Communication mistakes that you must avoid in your love life

One of the most common characteristics of happy couples is the effective communication between them. Effective communication plays an important role in keeping your love life brand new. However, there are times when almost all couples become victim of misunderstandings and confusion. Here are a few common situations:

Needless things that hurt

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It sure is important to convey your feelings to your partner but they say excess of anything is bad. There are certain feelings that if shared can take your discussion in an altogether different direction. You must pick your words wisely since sometimes sharing the details can get you into even more trouble.

In an intimate relationship, your actions always speak louder than your words. Do not say or do things that may hurt your partner. Similarly putting on a puppy face is much better option to make your partner feel that you realize your mistake rather than getting into an argument.

The blame games

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Most couples usually love blaming their partners for things that go wrong in their lives. It may be a good strategy to save your own face but along with that, it takes away the possibility of resolving the issue. Couples must take responsibility for their actions so that they can find a way out of their problems instead of running in a circle.

Blaming your partner is simply blaming yourself, which means you are equally responsible. Regardless of who has made a mistake focus your attention towards the solution as blame games serve no purpose.

Unrealistic expectations

Unrealistic expectations

Even after years together, you can hardly expect him/her to read your mind. Speak your heart out when two are together as it helps you know each other better. At the same time, you must acknowledge the fact that things you keep from your partner simply because you fear may hurt him/her eventually turn into a volcano of emotions. Blowing out of proportion, it may take away your happiness and peace of mind. Keep your partner aware of your true self to keep your relationship strong.

Lack of empathy

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No one really knows your partner better than you do. Do not forget to consider the viewpoint of your partner before you make important decisions of your life. Those couples who fail to do that always stuff their love life with regrets that make it impossible for them to lead a happy life. Many others know how their partners feel about a particular situation but hurt them intentionally. You can never win the love of your life by winning little arguments of everyday life. When you are committed to a relationship, decisions usually need to be based upon mutual agreement.

Do not make your issues public

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It is never good to share the problems of your love life with your friends especially something that implicate a fault on part of your partner. No one but you have to fight your battle and resolve your issues with the help of your partner. Sharing your problems with your coworkers or friends can create confusion or annoy your partner. Discuss your issues with your partner to resolve them.

Wrong approach to change your partner

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You may have heard people making their partners get rid of their bad habits be it smoking, drinking or anything else. You cannot change the basic nature of your soul mate but can certainly help him turn into a better person.

Yelling, scolding or threatening him/her can worsen the problem. You cannot use these strategies to rectify the behavior of a teenager let alone a grownup who happens to be your partner. Nothing can actually change him/her except your love and support.

Listen to your partner and share your own feelings to develop a mutual understanding. Life keep throwing new challenges at you but if you two are together and have an effective communication, nothing can keep you from loving each other even more.

Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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