When you are in the dark, remember ‘this too shall pass’

Change your perspective to look at your problems and you will notice that life is actually fun and full of hope. Have you ever wondered how you come up with a solution when someone shares his/her troubles with you. A simple shift in attitude can bring about great changes in your life and the way you look at it.

Hardships turn you into a better person

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You usually give up on hope and feel that the bad time would never ever end. Life seems to move in a wrong direction and you feel hopeless. However, even during adversities you cannot deny that hardships help you grow and turn into a better person. You must not forget that there is always a hope for a better tomorrow. Do not let your difficulties turn you into a bitter person and keep the hope alive in you.

Get inspired from great people

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No one gets success easily. You must not deny the fact that all great people of the world have actually gone through worse. Read autobiographies of your ideals as it helps you keep yourself positive even when you go through a bad phase of your life. Develop a can do attitude as you are capable to bring about great changes in your life and in life of all others around you. Your mistakes and failures bring out the best in you as they turn you into a wiser person.

All have their share of troubles

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You must not forget the fact each individual has his/her own demons to deal with, it is just that you fail to understand this reality. There are people who are worried about their financial condition and find it hard to make two ends meet. Some others have lost their loved ones. Millions of kids live in orphan age homes and do not have a secure future.

There are troubles that you know nothing about. Those people do not give up hope. Does this make you feel comfortable? You are not the only one who is troubled and alone. Each smiling face has a story behind it.

Over thinking is toxic

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If you keep thinking over your troubles, you would only turn yourself into a pessimist. Do not think too much about your troubles as it takes away your ability to face your problems head on.

Develop a broader perspective to look at your life, as nothing really matters at the end of the day. Troubles that bother you now would only be a reason to laugh at yourself a few years later. Do not let your hardships describe you, as you are much stronger than your troubles.

Feed good thoughts to your brain

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Thoughts you feed to your brain affect your life. If you think negative, your life starts moving in the same direction and turns you into a pessimist. On the contrary, those people who always think positive never let the hardships of life affect their happiness. You certainly have no control over your life and its events but you sure can control your own thoughts. Think positive even when you have all circumstances against you. Positivity works wonders.

Spend some time alone

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Spend some time alone on regular basis and do not let the worldly troubles bother you to the extent that you fail to move on in life. Analyze what you are doing and what direction you are giving to your life. Try to divert your attention from hardships of life as you can witness great change if only you change your own attitude. Life may be cruel at times but there is always a way out if you do not give up.

Shift you attention towards the brighter aspects of your life and let you struggles make you strong each passing day. Surround yourself with optimistic people who can give you the hope that life really has beautiful surprises for you.

Dr Prem Jagyasi and Team (C)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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