Some negative thoughts and self- concepts keep pulling your backward in life. You keep feeding them even at the cost of your success. Each one us have a couple of these, it depends on you how you win over these thoughts to move on in life.
“I have no time”
It is just another way of saying that you do not really want that thing. If you can’t make time now, you would never ever be able to do that even in future. When you want something badly, you should make it a part of you.
“I think I am not ready”
No one ever feels ready for their big moments. You simply feel that you are not prepared since you feel annoyed leaving your comfort zone. There is no one in the world who makes progress unless they are forced by the circumstances to do that. There are times when you are required to make a decision in a spur of a moment and losing it would make you regret all your life. Even if you miss the moment, keep yourself positive.
“I am a loser”
Even your greatest failure gives you something in return. No one gets success all the time. Failing also makes you wiser in life. Things take time and losing means something better is waiting ahead.
“I want an easy way out”
For a great change in life, you have to make a greater sacrifices, it is as simple as that. However, struggling means that you are getting prepared for the bigger change in your life. If you could get an easy way out, it would not be worth it.
“Others get success so easily”
Success never comes easy to anyone, each one of us our own struggles in life. You start recognizing the person by their success and never pay attention to all the effort that has gone into making it so far. The success that always gets attention from others is nothing in front of the success, which you get in a war against your own thoughts.
“I don’t have what it takes to get there”
You will never be a success if you keep comparing yourself with others. Success never comes tailor made; it is not that all need to be the same to make it in a particular field. On the contrary, it is the other ways around. You define the success with the qualities you possess in you. There are no secret ingredients, “it’s just you at your best.”
“I can’t afford to be vulnerable, I have to be strong”
Who says that people who are sensitive can’t be success. There is no doubt, your emotions make you weaker at times but the strength you get from your emotions is matchless. No one can motivate you like your loved ones since you have an emotional attachment with them.
“I am not perfect”
Who actually is? You don’t have to be perfect to be a success. You are no longer a human, if you are perfect. If you embrace your flaws, they will no longer be your weaknesses any more.
Most if the times it’s not others around you but you yourself, who keeps stepping back due to unjustifiable reasons.