Amend a bit, fortify your living

Amend a bit, fortify your living

Friendship, love, family, home, work and society-an individual’s verve revolve around these elements only and it add the flavor of contentment only if these imperative facets, representing the entire lifetime of a human run on a smooth track then every flash magnificently becomes simply perfect. However, being the only species on the planet that have the capability to think as well as understand, we all end up making our lives a complicated web. Whether it is simplicity or complexity, every single thing is initially the invention of one’s own brain and humans have a very weird talent of presenting even the easiest things in life in the most intricate manner ever. Well, the most critical factor that upshot the multifarious of every situation is distinctive mind set of the people.

Sustain your personal touch while fine-tuning

It is an ordinary fact that no two humans could ever think in the same manner. Even the two most alike people existing in the universe would diversify their pathways so it becomes mandatory that one listens and understands the view point of other person regarding the particular matter in order to create a harmonious environment. Thus, one should always follow the rule of the golden word, that is, “co-operation” in life in order to become an ideal person for everyone. Not only in personal life, but this attitude would also help a lot on the professional upfront by helping you to put an everlasting impression on your boss as well as cohorts by your friendly and adjusting behavior.

However, learn the art to fiddle with, without losing your own self! If you are adjusting and can amend your ways according to the demand of the situation without really sacrificing your self-respect, you would not only be the most pampered and the idyllic figure among anyone and everyone, but you would also be able to look into the eyes of this huge universe with the apt confidence level and thus feel contented in one’s life.

Be uncomplicated, earn reverence

It is in one’s own hands that how complicated and how simple one turns out a particular situation. Never underestimate yourself; you really have all the power to turn a situation completely round with just a slight change in your attitude. It is never bad to have an individualistic opinion in life, rather it is the best thing to not follow the masses but you cannot avoid the fact that existing in this world without being a part of that crowd is not possible, so one has to gratify others in order to gain their confidence, love, affection and all the other virtual elements that work as a driving force. Consequently, be really careful with your words and you display of emotions as they could actually make and break the things for you.

Just imagine, wouldn’t it be irritating for you if you are doing a group task and someone in your squad is constantly taking all the shares of credit? Well, the others feel the same about you if you are one of those who is just obsessed with the word “I”. For once shed the self pompous word and accept that fact that nothing in this world was possible if it wasn’t for “us” as it is not possible for a human to manage the things single handedly. Thus, the first and the foremost task that could make you an ideal person to deal with among others is a little bit of adjustment.

Why create ruckus, if calmness is urging to enter your doorstep?

Whenever anything happens that is not “exactly” according to our will and we are asked to alter our ways or ideas, the instant and indeed the easiest emotion to portray at that particular time is anger! Though you all might be absolutely familiar with the fact that annoyance and rifts can never be the solutions for any site in the journey of life, still we find it the most convenient way to express our disappointments. Well, for once just try overpowering your unnecessary fussing over everything and learn to fit in the scenario being accepted.

Simply get one thing clear in your mind that no matter how much you snivel or gripe, if it is feasible to get the things done completely your way then they would even if you stay polite, otherwise your tantrums would also not be of any help. Rather, your deplorable behavior will worsen the situation, earning you that tag of a “villain”. So why not to just take the other route instead? Indeed, the sparkling route of collaboration. After all, you surely would love it yourself if you can avoid any hectic situations in life.

Sensation and support goes as one

Ask yourself, what is the ultimate goal of your life? Every task you do and every single effort you make is in the anticipation of just two things, that is, success and respect and it is impossible to get both the virtues as a gift an acquaintance or by theft, you need to “earn them”! All of us are struggling in this knotty world, breathing amongst the most complicated creatures alive with the sole intention to have a “good” name and be pampered, even if it is on a very small scale.

However, one only gets what one showers on others. So, in order to get the treat from the people, you would be required to first please them. Not an easy task? Well, adoption of a single asset in your lifestyle would do sufficient for you to become the cherry of every person’s eye, that is, co-operation! Every being, including yourself, appreciate the fact when the other person gets ready to adjust as per the demand of the situation on his own will, not deliberately as it solves most of the problems when two people are working on the terms of mutual understanding. Whether you are in a personal relationship or you are dealing with someone professionally, just a bit of understanding and maturity could help to crack the nuts happily.

Never forget that a little bit of mutual aid on your behalf could change a tensed and abrupt situation into an amorous and sophisticated one. All you need to do is tackle every composite state with a little bit of ripeness and lots of selflessness and you will routinely be set to travel on the blissful lane of life!

Dr Prem Jagyasi

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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