Cut loose from behavior patterns that pull you backward in life

Certain habits and behaviors can make it difficult for you to realize your dreams. They fill your brains with negativity, taking you in a different direction. Here are a few behaviors that you have to be well aware of to keep them from distracting you.   

Don’t let others rule your life

Never let others make important decisions of your life. It is your life, live it your way. Life is short and if you allow others tell you what to do or if you keep pleasing others, then you are simply wasting your life. People always tell you not to achieve your dreams since they themselves could not achieve their own. Ignore those who try to master your life. Do things you love.

Don’t seek perfection

Dont be a perfectionist

Why to seek perfection when doing things well enough makes you an achiever. Instead of spending time to master a certain task, make a checklist and see for yourself when you attain a certain level in a particular task.

Don’t neglect yourself

Never neglect your body and mind. Get up early in the morning, take nutritious food and follow an exercise routine to stay healthy and fit. If you feel good about yourself and your body, the quality of your work increases automatically. When your energy levels are higher, you become more productive at your work.

Don’t gather useless information

It is not a good idea to keep collecting all sorts of information in your brain except what you need. You can never expect you brains to work efficiently if you keep feeding it with whatever you get your hands on. Choose wisely before you let anything get into your brain, as your thoughts play a crucial role in forming your personality.

Don’t over think

Over thinking move you towards confusion in life. Never let your brains go round and round over the same thoughts. If you keep a specific time limit to make a choice, you can make wise decisions.

Don’t be obstinate to accept your mistake

The mistakes you make in life always leave you with a learning that further paves way for growth. Accept your mistakes since we all make mistakes. However, the most important aspect is to take learning from all your mistakes as they make you a better person.

Don’t wait for the right time

Never wait for the right time to come. You make the moments worth living by valuing them. Time never waits for anyone, so do not waste it sitting idle waiting for things to happen on their own. There are people who waste all their lives waiting for the right time, which never arrives actually. It’s all now, this very moment, when you can make all the difference in your life.

Don’t leave things in between

Even if it does not make a big difference, you would have a load on your mind that you did not finish the task. Psychologically it gives you feeling of failure, so never leave any task in between. Divide your work into parts so that you do not feel the pressure. When you accomplish the task, you mentally prepare yourself for many more achievements to come.

Positivity in behavior makes you a winner. Keeping a correct attitude takes you half way towards your goal.

Dr Prem Jagyasi and Team (C)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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