{"id":31158,"date":"2020-07-16T10:09:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T10:09:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drprem.com\/quotes\/?p=31158"},"modified":"2020-08-12T11:47:36","modified_gmt":"2020-08-12T11:47:36","slug":"it-is-good-to-help-others-every-once-in-a-while-but-if-it-begins-to-affect-your-work-or-your-personal-life-it-is-time-to-take-some-strict-measures-you-should-start-saying-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drprem.com\/quotes\/it-is-good-to-help-others-every-once-in-a-while-but-if-it-begins-to-affect-your-work-or-your-personal-life-it-is-time-to-take-some-strict-measures-you-should-start-saying-no\/","title":{"rendered":"It is good to help others every once in a while, but if it begins to affect your work or your personal life, it is time to take some strict measures. You should start saying \u2018no\u2019."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"661dabcddedf15f58a2e10a7a9227c43\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:10px 0 10px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\"\r\n     data-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9477973674766713\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8885944693\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><span data-sheets-value=\"{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;Being kind is good. Everyone would tell you that. But what if others start to take unfair advantage of that? If you are too kind, very often you\u2019d find yourself doing the works of others when you should be concentrating on something of your own. This could push you back in the strife for your aims and goals. So, if that\u2019s happening to you, maybe you should start practicing how to say no. It\u2019s not as difficult as you might think it is, as you once you start doing this, people would automatically start realizing that they can\u2019t do with you as they please. And they\u2019d leave you alone.&quot;}\" data-sheets-userformat=\"{&quot;2&quot;:12801,&quot;3&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:0},&quot;12&quot;:0,&quot;15&quot;:&quot;Calibri, sans-serif&quot;,&quot;16&quot;:11}\">Being kind is good. Everyone would tell you that. But what if others start to take unfair advantage of that? If you are too kind, very often you\u2019d find yourself doing the works of others when you should be concentrating on something of your own. This could push you back in the strife for your aims and goals. So, if that\u2019s happening to you, maybe you should start practicing how to say no. It\u2019s not as difficult as you might think it is, as you once you start doing this, people would automatically start realizing that they can\u2019t do with you as they please. And they\u2019d leave you alone.<\/span><\/p><div class=\"661dabcddedf15f58a2e10a7a9227c43\" data-index=\"2\" style=\"float: none; margin:10px 0 10px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\"\r\n     data-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9477973674766713\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8885944693\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Quote; &#8220;It is good to help others every once in a while, but if it begins to affect your work or your personal life, it is time to take some strict measures. 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