{"id":2199,"date":"2013-11-02T12:02:07","date_gmt":"2013-11-02T12:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drprem.com\/life\/?p=2199"},"modified":"2020-08-19T06:42:04","modified_gmt":"2020-08-19T06:42:04","slug":"trust-in-yourself-and-you-will-achieve-what-you-desire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drprem.com\/life\/trust-in-yourself-and-you-will-achieve-what-you-desire","title":{"rendered":"Trust in yourself and you will achieve what you desire"},"content":{"rendered":"

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“I failed again in my exams. Why God doesn\u2019t want me to pass? I studied the day before exam and I also studied the entire night but again I failed.” A common thing we hear everyday among students, don’t we? And the most common comeback is, “Well, have you tried studying harder?”Maybe it was because of God.<\/p>

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Do not blame everything on God. Learn to blame yourself as well<\/b><\/p>\n

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The question is, why do we always blame it on God? Every single thing that does not happen according to our wishes is blamed on God. It is a ridiculous thing to do so. Why depend on someone?\u00a0Take things in your own hands. Make a change by trying to do something rather than sitting back on your couch watching television and blaming God, economy and any other thing that comes into your mind. I do not want to be harsh with my words but those things are done by a bunch of losers and these losers can never succeed in life.<\/p>\n

So it is ultimately up to you to make a difference in your or someone else\u2019s life by doing or at least trying to do something. Let me explain you how important it is to try. Consider yourself to be in a relationship. Now when you a fight with your better half on why you did not help in the kitchen or any other household chores or why could not you stop another person flirting with you, there is bound to come a question – \u201cyou did not even try to do it?\u201d You may think it is useless to do so as it is not possible but still they would say that you did not even try, be it an impossible case such as asking your boss for an early leave.<\/p>\n

Try and try again until you succeed<\/b><\/p>

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Therefore it is not necessary for you to succeed in something. But what is important is trying.. You never know, you might just succeed. “Why do I try when I know I would not be able to do it?” It is because you do not know your future and hence what is expected of you is that you try.\u00a0Even in my previous example about the relationship and related arguments, you can say to your partner that I tried but it just did not work out. \u201cOh yeah? That is trying? You never succeed. You only try!\u201d That is what your partner is going to say when you say that to him\/her. Now here is a catch. You have to try it out with your full heart and not just because of the sake of doing it. Yeah, it is not going to satisfy your partner, but it is going to satisfy God and your heart to know that you gave your best. And trust me; this gives you more strength to fight back your partner when he\/ she blame you.<\/p>\n

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Have the conviction that you can do it<\/b><\/p>\n

Now let us explore the spiritual side of the given quote. You think Mother Teresa said this without any reason? She said this because that is what God actually wants. Just to give a basic idea of what it actually means in its simplest of simplest manner is that you may not have always been a good person but from now on you can at least try to be a good person. It is fair to say that God’s help is more likely to be effective if you are earnestly trying to do your part to help yourself. And sometimes, God can’t effectively help a guy who’s working too hard to un-help himself. Let me give you an example to make you understand this well. Consider a gambler, if he throws away everything in gambling then why would God help him and give him more money to waste? Once he understands what he has done and tries to give away the habit of gambling, God would come forward and do everything so that that person can have a normal life. But do not be under any misconception that the gambler would not have any trouble, because there would be and that is how God would test his determination. This is where he has to try and this is how trying matters. You may think a thing to be irrelevant but you do not know when that thing would be relevant and when you\u2019re trying would give you results. So never stop trying as you never know when it starts to be counted. As rightly said by Mother Teresa God Does not require us to Succeed, he only requires us to try.<\/p>\n

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