Love nowadays has changed in many ways. In modern time, people love or pretend to do so to display their emotions on social networking websites. People fail to understand the real meaning of love and it is true in case of both the genders. Within no time, people change their status on their profiles and let everyone know about the way feel. They leave a little or almost nothing on imagination. Here are a few common reasons:
Trend to get too close to your partner
Modern lovers do not have the patience to wait and let their love flourish with times. Live-in relationships are prevalent almost everywhere in the world. Couples find it exciting but you cannot deny the fact that when you get too close to each other the excitement fades away gradually. Your heart no longer beats for your partner. It is true that at a certain point of time you get married to the person eventually but it hardly steals the excitement to meet your partner for a cup of coffee and talk for hours and feel that your heart may just jump out of your chest.
The difficult choice between love and career
Modern time demands you to be self-dependent so that you can chase your dreams and live the way you always wanted to live. The cutthroat competition and the ever-changing world of work make it even harder to choose love over your career. You would surely not want to regret years later when you would not be able to start all over. You must set your priorities straight and make a decision. Most people unfortunately desire a flourishing career over love.
No doubt, love alone does not guarantee happiness in life but that it is also true that you cannot buy love with a big pile of money. The modern generation fails to understand the fact that you need to satisfy your basis necessities not to show off your lavishness to all others around you. If you look around you would certainly find many examples of happy couples who have successfully maintained a balance between their career and love life.
Loyalty and assurance
One of the most common reasons why people do not want to fall in love is that they do not want to commit. You do not want to get stuck as loving one person restricts you from getting close to other people. Many others do not trust their partners and do not want to take a risk. You bitter experiences of past also keep you from moving a step further.
You have a million ways to communicate with the person who is miles away from you but it has disadvantages of its own. You have networking websites to keep a long list of friends too. However, it gets difficult for the person to set their priorities right. You do not really understand who is important and who is not. Communication has lost its essence as most couples express their inner most feeling with almost everyone but their partners.
Growing expectations that lead to disappointment
When you expect a lot from your partner and fail to understand the fact that there are other things to deal with, things go haywire. You must not expect that things will remain the same ever since you start dating. Time changes but you must make sure that this change does not affect your relationship negatively. Expectations lead to disappointment that eventually instigate negativity.
You can never replace everlasting love with relationships that do not last long. Make a balance between career and love, as both are important. Love completes your life and gives you reasons to be at your best.