Positive mindsets that can help you get over a breakup

The truth is that a breakup is never good. It is hard, it is painful and it shatters you temporarily. However, you must have come across people who managed to be in good spirits soon after their breakup, while some others who struggled hard to move forward with their life. This means that the way one behaves after a breakup depends completely on an individual.

If one sees its bright side, one remains happy and jolly thinking about the future possibilities, while clinging to the past and regretting only brings pain. You need to develop a positive mindset if you want to come out winning of such a negative event like a breakup. Here are some positive mindsets you can learn to get over a breakup asap:

Practice makes a man/woman perfect

we were together

It is but natural to feel after a breakup that all the years you invested in your partner are wasted. It would have been much better if you had invested such long years somewhere else, doing some better things and all that. The more you will allow such thoughts to take control of your mind, the worse the situation will become for you. On the other hand, if you start perceiving your broken relationship as a practice, things will become lot more easy and positive. Think that in all those years you both were together, you have learnt so many things that will come handy in future.

It ended but it was worth it

Breakup of a couple with bad guy and sad girlfriend

Too often, separated couples are found saying that our relationship ended because it just wasn’t worth it. Saying so, the pain and the agony a couple feels is unexplainable because deep inside they know their relationship was worth it but somehow it ended. Therefore, you should agree that your relationship was pretty great, it was absolutely worth it but now it is over. This way, you will be able to deal with the situation with quite an ease and confidence.

Letting go of an opportunity is the only way to avail another opportunity awaiting us

welcome your future

Whether it is a positive or a negative memory, you have to let go of it with time. You cannot rigidly stick to that one memory or experiences, thus ignoring so many that are ready to change you and your life. Take your breakup for example. Unless and until you decide to close this chapter of your life, you will not be able to enjoy and welcome a new chapter; probably that is lot more positive and pleasant than your previous chapter. You must forget your past and prepare yourself so that you are able to welcome your future with arms wide open.

Get up, dress up, show up, and never give up

Enjoying Champagne

If you have stopped getting ready the way you used to and you have kind of shunned laughter, happiness and outside world altogether after your breakup, think again. This way you are making your life vulnerable to the miseries that a breakup brings with itself. You do not want to be a victim but this practice of yours is making you no better than a victim. Wake up and face the reality. Try to make things easy and good for you, for you yourself are responsible for your happiness and sadness. Get properly dressed, go to parties, meet people and you will realize that nothing is over. In fact, plethoras of opportunities are awaiting your response. Do everything to keep the spirit of never giving up alive in you.


Breakups are tough and have extremely negative influences on our personalities. However, a positive mindset and with the required support of family and friends, one manages to get over this phase fast and with ease.

Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)

Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.

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