{"id":65257,"date":"2019-03-06T04:50:55","date_gmt":"2019-03-06T04:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/?p=65257"},"modified":"2020-10-07T10:38:46","modified_gmt":"2020-10-07T10:38:46","slug":"10-easy-ways-to-teach-your-child-how-to-share","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/10-easy-ways-to-teach-your-child-how-to-share\/","title":{"rendered":"10- Easy ways to teach your child how to share"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"38520354a5201685ddf480eec688e1a7\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:10px 0 10px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\"\r\n     data-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9477973674766713\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8885944693\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Little children undeniably have a lot of difficulty in sharing with other children. This is true for all children, and the first step to teach them to share is to accept that it is normal at that age. As parents you must be wondering how to help your child to be generous. T<a href=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/stop-child\/\">oddlers are extremely possessive<\/a> of their possessions, so you have to gently but consistently teach them the value of sharing in many different ways. Here are some tips to help you <em><strong>teach your child<\/strong><\/em> how to share:<!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>10 Easy ways to teach your child to share<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h2>1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Teach by example<\/h2>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65347\" src=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/share-your-ice-cream.jpg\" alt=\" share your ice cream\" width=\"800\" height=\"537\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/share-your-ice-cream.jpg 800w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/share-your-ice-cream-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/share-your-ice-cream-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/share-your-ice-cream-585x393.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Children are very observant and try to sopy everything you do. They will talk like you, wear a scarf like you do, and so on. One of the best ways for teaching a preschooler to share is to show them by example. You could share your ice cream with them, which will demonstrate that a loved object can be shared with someone.<\/p>\n<h2>2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Understand their super-possesiveness<\/h2>\n<p>Like many parents, you may get upset when your child refuses to share his\/her toys with their siblings or friends. They may bawl their little hearts out and scream at the top of their voices when some other child starts playing with their toys. To teach your child the importance of sharing, you have to first understand that being \u2018selfish\u2019 is a very natural part of the growing up process.<\/p>\n<p>The child develops a sense of identity apart from the mother, and they form very strong attachments to their stuff and their possessions are part of their identity. The toys or the favorite toy is a part of themselves, their body even. So when they refuse to share, there is more than \u2018selfishness\u2019 going on. He\/she feels extremely insecure when another person\/child handles their toys, which brings on what we see as a tantrum.<\/p>\n<h2>3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 When do children begin sharing<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65348\" src=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/learn-to-play-together.jpg\" alt=\"learn to play together\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/learn-to-play-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/learn-to-play-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/learn-to-play-together-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/learn-to-play-together-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Experts say that it is difficult for very young children to share as they have not yet developed the ability to play \u2018with\u2019 others. Young children are not capable of sharing till they reach the age of six, when they understand that their toys will be returned to them. They have to learn to co-operate first, before they learn to share. When your child reaches kindergarten, they will slowly learn to interact with others and learn to play together.<\/p>\n<p>This is when it becomes easier for them to share. But a two year old child too can be generous, especially with other children who they view as non-threatening \u2013 a child who is younger than them or a child who is quieter than them. Your child\u2019s temperament also plays a role in sharing. Still, it would be unfair to expect your child to share his\/her most prized possession, whatever the age. You would think twice about sharing a precious heirloom too, wouldn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<h2>4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Don\u2019t force your child into sharing<\/h2>\n<p>While teaching the importance of sharing you have to respect your child\u2019s wishes too. You do have to convey that sharing is very desirable, and explain the value of sharing. But never force your child to share when he or she is reluctant. They will associate sharing with being unhappy, if you force your kid to share. When they play with others, they will soon learn that if they never share their toys, no one will share with them either! Slowly, just because they want to play with other children\u2019s toys, they will share their own toys.<\/p><div class=\"38520354a5201685ddf480eec688e1a7\" data-index=\"2\" style=\"float: none; margin:10px 0 10px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\"\r\n     data-ad-layout=\"in-article\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9477973674766713\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8885944693\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<h2>5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Teach them through role play<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65349\" src=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-them-through-role-play.jpg\" alt=\"Teach them through role play\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-them-through-role-play.jpg 800w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-them-through-role-play-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-them-through-role-play-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-them-through-role-play-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>In order to teach your child to share, one of the ways is through role play. Play with your child and just say no when he or she asks for something. When he becomes upset, then you can talk about how their friends\/siblings feel when he says no to them. The next time your kid refuses to share, then you might remind gently about the way he felt and he\/she most probably will start sharing.<\/p>\n<h2>6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Play sharing games<\/h2>\n<p>Teaching a preschooler about sharing becomes easier with games. You can play sharing games with your toddler and say things like \u2018Give this to mommy, give this to big sister\u2019 and so on.<\/p>\n<h2>7.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Teach through chocolates<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65350\" src=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-through-chocolates.jpg\" alt=\"Teach through chocolates\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-through-chocolates.jpg 800w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-through-chocolates-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-through-chocolates-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Teach-through-chocolates-585x390.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Make it a point to ask all your children to <a href=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/life\/a-kindhearted-little-child-and-a-bag-full-of-chocolates\">share their chocolates<\/a> with one another. When your youngest child sees all the older ones happily sharing, he will also do the same. Give him the chocolate, and the important task of dividing it among everyone. The child will feel happy about being entrusted with such an important job, and will better about parting with their beloved chocolate.<\/p>\n<h2>8.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Shower the praise<\/h2>\n<p>Children glow when they are praised. Be sure to pile on the praise accompanied by hugs and kisses when you notice that they are allowing others to touch and play with their toys. This encouragement will be a big incentive to keep on sharing. Your child, who is in kindergarten, will become as adept at giving as older kids when you continuously praise their generosity.<\/p>\n<h2>9.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Plan beforehand<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-65351\" src=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Children-love-to-play-with-new-toys.jpg\" alt=\"Children love to play with new toys\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Children-love-to-play-with-new-toys.jpg 800w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Children-love-to-play-with-new-toys-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Children-love-to-play-with-new-toys-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/drprem.com\/guide\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2019\/03\/Children-love-to-play-with-new-toys-585x439.jpg 585w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Be smart and plan ahead. If your child\u2019s friend is coming for a playdate, ask the parents to send some toys with the child. Children love to play with <a href=\"https:\/\/ecofriend.com\/green-gifts-eco-friendly-toys-kids.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">new toys<\/a>, so it will be easier for your kid to share his\/her toys if he can get the chance to play with the other child\u2019s toys too. Both the children will thus be playing happily in no time, as they feel it is just and fair to give their toys to one another. Children are extremely sensitive, and they feel upset if they are willing to share when the other child does not share.<\/p>\n<h2>10.\u00a0 Pick themes for playdates<\/h2>\n<p>When little children see the toys of other children, they have to have it! So it is best to select a theme like beach, or cooking, or farm etc so that all the kids play with the same type of toys. There will be much less squabbling between the kids, and less grabbing.<\/p>\n<p>When you are teaching your kid to share, you have to protect him\/her too. You can\u2019t and you shouldn\u2019t expect your child to share his most favorite toy, so initially don\u2019t ask him\/her to share that. 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