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Turn on the dial of passion and enjoy lovemaking everyday

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A lot of couples have a mediocre sex life which is better than having a non-existent sex life, but not really satisfying. Lack of sex is bad and lack of mind-blowing sex is not that great either. Once you accept that you are having a mediocre sex life it will be easier for you to narrow down the reasons behind it. Most of the sexual problems that modern couples have emerge from lack of proper communication.

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If you want more out of your sex life then discuss your needs and desires with your partner. You may be surprised by their reaction and they too may open up about their expectations. Also learn to recognize the signs of a mediocre sex life and apply a few tricks to enhance it.

What are the signs that your sex life is mediocre?

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The mind gives many tell-tale signs which we are often unable to decipher. If you find your mind wandering continuously to other things than sex while in act then there is a big chance your relationship has got stuck in the mundane zone. You may also feel a lack of energy at the time of sex and try to get things over as quickly as possible.

Remember that sex is not supposed to be so boring. It is not a chore but a pleasurable experience. In many cases women who find it difficult to reach climax easily fake an orgasm to get done with the intercourse. Have you ever done this? It is true that most men cannot tell if his partner is faking the orgasm but still this is an act of self negation.

Sex should not be a favor you shower on your partner. It should a mutually benefiting act of love. Another big sign that your sex life is mediocre is if you are unable to stay naked for some time after sex with your partner. It means that you are uncomfortable with your partner and cannot stay naked in front of their eyes due to some deeper lying reasons.

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If you have been blaming yourself for the bad quality of sex, lack of sex or your inability to enjoy sex then stop right now. It only indicates that you are not happy in your personal life.

What are the reasons behind a mediocre sex life?

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If you are wondering what went wrong and how your sex life became so horrible, fret not. Think and find out the reasons. Is your personal life emotionally satisfying? Are you still in love with your partner? If you answer both these questions with a negative then consider breaking up seriously.

When a relationship is emotionally draining or unsatisfactory it affects the sex life. Long term relationships can easily get into a rut when you and your partner both stop showing enthusiasm for sex. Boredom can kill sex life.

Lack of communication and a frank relationship can also create problems for couples. Deduce the real problems because emotional issues need to be solved with care or else your sex life will get impaired for a lifetime.

How to improve the quality of your love life?

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If possible take a small vacation away from the noise of city and get rid of all the stress. A relaxing holiday will not only give you the opportunity to relax but also of reinventing your sex life. Try new sexual postures, take time to enjoy foreplay and spend quality time with your partner.

All this will definitely rejuvenate your love life. Gift clothes and lingerie which you find attractive and sweetly ask your partner to start dressing up for you. Play sex games like strip poker for connecting with your playful self. You can also read or watch sexually educating movies or books like Kamasutra. This will increase your knowledge and give you a better chance at enjoying sex.

Revive your sex life by gathering more knowledge, experimenting with new sexual poses and spending quality time with your partner. Keep aside more time for sex and consult a sexual counselor if necessary.

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