Love Guide by Dr Prem http://drprem.com/love Ultimate guide to Love, Romance, Dating and Relationship Tue, 25 Nov 2014 10:59:20 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Getting back to life after a tough breakup http://drprem.com/love/getting-back-life-tough-breakup http://drprem.com/love/getting-back-life-tough-breakup#comments Tue, 25 Nov 2014 10:59:20 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10302 A person’s world goes upside down after a break up. He finds it extremely difficult to move on in his life, as innumerable memories of his beloved bombard him. It is such a painful stage for many people that they find themselves in utter confusion and mayhem. The confusion regarding the decision whether one should ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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A person’s world goes upside down after a break up. He finds it extremely difficult to move on in his life, as innumerable memories of his beloved bombard him. It is such a painful stage for many people that they find themselves in utter confusion and mayhem. The confusion regarding the decision whether one should move on in life or keep living with a hope. Hope is a positive thing but sometimes after breakups, it is a hope that makes things worse, as in the sufferer continues suffering in a hope, that everything would soon patch and again they will be together with their beloved. However, in reality the things are not so.

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Some breakups have a room for compromise and reunion, while the others do not. Lovers are supposed to be wise enough to find the difference between these two sorts of breakups if they want to go through minimum amount of turmoil post break up. Sometimes it is better to leave hopes and start a new life. You need to recollect all memories, the good and the bad ones, analyze them and try to seek a result on which your life depends. If you have a feeling that your relation should not end so you can put some efforts to reunite, on the other hand if you feel that nothing is going to change then leave all hopes, free yourself from the shackles of past memories and move on in life. As soon as you will decide to move on, the less agony you will have to face. Once you take a decision to move on, these three following tips will make your journey less painful and positive:

Give yourself sometime

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Human mind is unlike a computer memory from which you can easily delete stuff with a few clicks. Human mind takes a good deal of time to forget things, in fact it is not forgetting but our mind and heart learns to accept things as they are after some time. Whatever your emotions are, anger, frustration, sadness, guilt, regret, remorse, just bring them all out. There is no need to feel any embarrassment over the occurrence of emotions, as they are all normal. Give vent to all such emotions and you will certainly feel better and it will help you a lot to move on in life with optimism.

Stay in present

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Human mind is usually filled with thoughts related to our past, present, and the future. After a breakup, try to stick your mind exclusively to the present thoughts, as the past memories only hurt and nothing else. For this matter, even the plans and thoughts that you had shared with your partner related to future will also hurt you. Therefore, the only way to save you from the pain and frustration is to stay in the present and forget about the past and the future. Stay in present and let the wounds heal naturally.

Learn a lesson

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Breakups do hurt but they teach a lesson too and make one wise. One can learn important love lessons from breakups and use them to make their future relationships flawless and brimming with happiness. All of us term breakups as failures because we fail to realize the importance of the lesson that a break up teaches us. They make us better human beings as we get rid of our mistakes after learning about them. Breakups make us strong physically, emotionally and mentally, as they teach us not to solely depend upon another person.

Summary

Breakups do hurt but it is very important for a person to take control of him soon after a breakup and put in efforts to move on in life.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Things you should do to make relationship work http://drprem.com/love/things-make-relationship-work http://drprem.com/love/things-make-relationship-work#comments Sun, 23 Nov 2014 10:59:18 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10301 Love relationship is a beautiful combination of so many things that if they are in absolute order, nothing can make a love relationship fail. If a relationship lacks these important things, then nothing can make a relationship happy and satisfying. Click through what are the important factors that are essential to make a relationship work: ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Love relationship is a beautiful combination of so many things that if they are in absolute order, nothing can make a love relationship fail. If a relationship lacks these important things, then nothing can make a relationship happy and satisfying. Click through what are the important factors that are essential to make a relationship work:

Communication

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Communication is the most important factor in a relationship. It is the way to express your happiness, complaints, and grievances to your partner. Some people do not give much importance to communication in relationships, and sadly end up having breakups. On the other hand, some people think that if they will speak up on every issue that might end up their relationship. Well, people get this thing straight that communication never breaks up a relation, but the lack of it certainly does. If you do not express your feelings as and when they appear, they will keep stacking up and one day they will burst and cause a break up. Therefore, communicate a lot with your partner and enjoy a healthy relationship.

Availability

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Availability is one factor that determines how strong or weak the bond is between couples. Both the partners should have this feeling that they have someone to fall back upon in the sad and the bad times of their life. Whenever a partner hits rough road, the other should always be available for them and should offer every possible help. It should not be as if your partner is having a tough time and you are enjoying your life or not giving enough time to your partner. Partners should be comforting figures for one another and the pillars of strength on which they can lean upon anytime and anywhere.

Friendship

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The higher the level of friendship between partners, the higher is the possibility of a successful relationship. It is very important that two people in a relationship have a true friendship with one another. In a relationship, one needs to spend a great deal of time with one another, and to do this one is required to love another wholeheartedly. Just imagine if you have to stay with a person, with whom you do not share any friendship and you so not like that person, how tough it would be to spend even a small proportion of time with that person. Friendship is the backbone of any love relationship.

Compatibility

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Compatibility is a factor that determines the nature and the life of a relationship between two people. Compatibility means to enjoy doing same things, same likings and disliking, and to have many other things in common. Two people in a relationship can only stay happy if both love to do majority of similar things, otherwise the difference in majority of tastes leads to difference in opinions and conflicts. A relationship loses its intensity if the partners have no common interests because they do not enjoy anything that they can do together, and then it becomes more of a compromise. Therefore, there has to be a high level of compatibility between partners to make a relationship strong.

Do not take your partner for granted

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Love relationship requires the best efforts of both the partners to make each other’s life blissful. Both the partners do numerous things everyday in order to make their beloved happy. They try to satisfy every little wish and put in efforts to make all their dreams come true just because they love them. However, in some relationships things are a bit different. One partner tries his best to make his beloved happy and satisfies but she starts to take things and her partners’ behaviour for granted. This behaviour eventually leads to the end of a relationship.

Summary:

There are some qualities that make a relationship work, and whose absence leads to a split of the partners.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Facts everybody having a love and sex life should know http://drprem.com/love/facts-everybody-love-sex-life-know http://drprem.com/love/facts-everybody-love-sex-life-know#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:59:16 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10300 Everybody has their own love and a sex life, but still one is always curious to know about other’s love life not because of any other reason but just to confirm the level and standard of their love life. Well, if you agree to this and you belong to this category then this article is ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Everybody has their own love and a sex life, but still one is always curious to know about other’s love life not because of any other reason but just to confirm the level and standard of their love life. Well, if you agree to this and you belong to this category then this article is surely for you. Click through to find out facts related to one’s sex and love life:

Women are marvelous spies

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Starting from the first day when a woman goes with a man on date, women do not depend upon men to reveal their life to them, and therefore, they do their homework beforehand only. Women spy on the man with whom they intend to start a relationship with, and find out stuff that they want to know about the man. Although men also do the same, but women are more intricate on the spy part.

Worried about the dipping sexual interest post marriage

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Majority of women and men have a misconception that either the sex life becomes boring, or it starts plummeting after a few years of marriage. This misconception is so strong in some people that they actually worry a lot about it. All you men and women kindly get this thing very straight that it is just a myth and nothing more. More than 41 percent of people in the world do not experience a drop in their sexual pleasure even after so many years of their marriage. So, stop worrying and enjoy.

Love and marriage is good for men’s bones

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To go by the study of University of California, Los Angeles, love and marriage is good for men’s bones, as it strengthens their skeleton. Well, this is not the only health benefit of marriage that men enjoy but there are many other health benefits as well. Married men are less prone to cancers and heart diseases, and they have a longer life as well.

You do not feel sick when you are sexually aroused

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Many people would agree that sex is a messy activity featuring fluids and smells. However, when a person is sexually aroused, he does not feel grossed out owing to the smells and the messy fluid because sexual arousal overrides the body’s natural response, the disgust response.

The arousal makes the mind strong against some sick happenings and a person does not feel disgusted. A normal person feels sick when someone pukes in front of him under normal circumstances, but if the person is sexually aroused then there is a possibility that he will not respond to the puke in the same way.

Men fall in love faster and out of it slower

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Men are renowned for being flirtatious and non-committers, and that they are very quick at changing their feelings, but this is untrue in most of the cases. Men are the ones who fall in love faster than women do. Moreover, they are the ones who take more time to get over a break up and move on in lives. Men do experience a roller coaster ride of emotions but cannot express them.

Boys are more eager to meet her parents

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It sounds so sweet that majority of the times it is a boy in relationship with a girl who is more anxious to meet the girl’s parents. However, many boys accept the fact that it is not commitment that makes them anxious to meet parents; rather it is to satisfy their doubts. They want to find out the nature of a girl’s dad, so that there is no scope for any future trouble.

Summary

In order to make your love and sex life happier and successful, it is good to know all the facts and possibilities about love life.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Get ready for an arranged marriage, and make it work for you http://drprem.com/love/get-ready-arranged-marriage-make-work http://drprem.com/love/get-ready-arranged-marriage-make-work#comments Thu, 20 Nov 2014 13:08:42 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10386 We humans are bound to make many decisions in our lifetime; some are easy while the others are tough. One such decision, that many people find difficult to make is the decision regarding marriage. Yes, marriage is such a big commitment and a responsibility, which some people fear, as they do not find themselves ready ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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We humans are bound to make many decisions in our lifetime; some are easy while the others are tough. One such decision, that many people find difficult to make is the decision regarding marriage. Yes, marriage is such a big commitment and a responsibility, which some people fear, as they do not find themselves ready for a lifelong commitment. Broadly speaking, marriage could be classified into two categories: arranged marriage and love marriage. In love marriage, we know the intended spouse pretty well, because we have been with him or her during the courtship period. A couple knows each other like the back of their hand, and they know the families as well. Therefore, in love marriages the confusion and the nervousness are not even half the amount that an arranged marriage presents.

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People planning to do arrange marriages experience several pre-marital jitters, as they find it difficult to marry a person whom they have only met a couple of times, and hardly know well enough to spend their lives together. Moreover, they say arrange marriages is not just a bond of a couple but it is a union of two families, which makes the couple even more nervous, as they know nothing, or very little about the families of their future husband or wife.

If you have planned to tie the knot with someone your family has chosen for you then there is no need to worry, as even love marriage also has it fair share of surprises as an arrange marriage has. If you are feeling those pre-marital jitters, it is normal, just be optimistic and prepare yourself for the transformation. There are a few things you must know and understand in order to make arrange marriage successful, to bring in long lasting love and happiness into your relation.

Understanding

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In an arrange marriage, a couple should try their best to know each other well. Knowing the likes, dislikes, preferences, choice, anger, what makes them happy, and knowledge of every behavioral trait can help make things easier. Initially, it can be problematic but with time, it comes naturally.

A family affair

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You have to have this in mind that in arrange marriage you have to take care of everybody, and their likes and dislikes. It is not just about you and your partner but the entire family. Therefore, be prepared and you would not face any problem post marriage.

Love blooms

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Arrange marriages generally do not have things like love at first sight or the initial crazy love, rather the nature of love is stable, and enduring. You can plan surprises, go to places and do things your partner likes, and try to adjust in the environment your partner loves to be in. Adjustment does not mean you should forget your likings and your own identity, it only means to go out of the way to make your partner happy and comfortable. Doing so, you will experience an upsurge in love proportion between you and your partner, and the love will stay for long, even forever.

Limit your expectations

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Expectation works two ways – as a motivator and as a source of discouragement. Expectation is one thing that is a big difference between love marriages and the arrange marriages. In love marriages too much of expectations eats away the happiness and love in love marriages because both the partners start blaming each other for not matching the expectations. However, in arrange marriages the level of expectations is usually low, and it should be so in all the cases, as it keeps love and happiness intact in arrange marriages. Therefore, do expect but remember that too much of expectation is bad.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Rekindling the love after a breakup http://drprem.com/love/rekindling-love-breakup http://drprem.com/love/rekindling-love-breakup#comments Wed, 19 Nov 2014 10:59:16 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10299 One sure thing about breakup is the hurt and pain one goes through. Spending so many years together and then one sudden day finding yourself all alone is something that many couple find hard to bear. The amount of pain after a breakup depends upon the intensity of love between two people, and the reason ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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One sure thing about breakup is the hurt and pain one goes through. Spending so many years together and then one sudden day finding yourself all alone is something that many couple find hard to bear. The amount of pain after a breakup depends upon the intensity of love between two people, and the reason that caused a split. Sometimes the reasons are so big and intolerable that both the partners find it better to end things once and for all. However, in some other cases, both the partners at first think that they should take a decision to split but after a few days they realize that they are nothing without their partner, or the feeling that they cannot get someone else who can love them as much as their ex used to do.

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You remember the saying – absence makes the heart grow fonder, this saying holds so true in the aforementioned cases. When the couple is together, they find innumerable faults in each other and they bicker but as soon as they break up, all they do is to miss their ex a lot and long to get back together. Well, if you are also experiencing these kinds of feelings then all you need to do is to rekindle love with your ex. Following are some things you should do if you want your ex back in your life:

Be sure what you want

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First of all you need to find out whether you want to get back your love or not. Give yourself time and introspect, try to understand your behavior, as in is it just the loneliness that is making you feel to get your ex back, or it is everything that you are missing about your love. If the answer you get is positive then move on to other steps.

Find the underlying cause that caused a split

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You are supposed to determine the true cause behind your breakup. Be honest and true to yourself and find your actual role that contributed to your breakup. After finding put in all efforts to get rid of your fault and promise yourself that come what may, you will never repeat your fault ever again. If you are not ready to fix your mistakes then it means you are not ready to rekindle love with your ex, and you should move on in life.

Contact your ex

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Now give your ex a call or leave a message regarding a meeting. If your ex buys your suggestion then arrange for a meeting, and make them understand your intentions of getting back together once again. It is a very complex situation, which requires a great deal of patience, and skills to tackle it.

Accept all your faults

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Love is all about giving your best, acceptance, and forgiving. After expressing your intensions to get back into a relationship to your ex and you feel your ex is showing a concern to your proposal, it means you do stand a chance to rekindle love. Start a conversation about your past relationship and then come down to the mistakes that you made. Accept whatever faults you had, the mistakes you made, and for the times you badly hurt your ex. Acceptance is the best thing to do if you want to patch up things in a relationship. On the other hand, if you show the stubborn side of you, it will do no good rather would worsen the situation. If you will accept then only your ex would get a chance to forgive you.

Summary:

Breakups are bad, as all they bring with them is tremendous pain. If you think there is a possibility to patch things up, then do not let go of the opportunity and find ways that help rekindle love after a breakup.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Having a solid, committed relationship as a teenager http://drprem.com/love/solid-committed-relationship-teenager http://drprem.com/love/solid-committed-relationship-teenager#comments Tue, 18 Nov 2014 10:59:14 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10298 Weather teenagers can have serious relationships is a highly debated topic and as a result, some people believe that yes they can have a serious relationship while others believe that serious relationships are not teenager’s cup of tea. The reason behind the latter perspective is the dynamic nature of teenagers. Their thought process tends to ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Weather teenagers can have serious relationships is a highly debated topic and as a result, some people believe that yes they can have a serious relationship while others believe that serious relationships are not teenager’s cup of tea. The reason behind the latter perspective is the dynamic nature of teenagers. Their thought process tends to change according to situations, and the same goes for their likings and dislikes as well.

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Often, teenagers lack the maturity to understand the seriousness of love and affairs. They think too much about other people, as in what do they think about them, and this is the reason that teenagers give looks more priority than a good nature of someone whom they chose to be in relationship with. This perspective is right but only for some cases, because there are some teenagers who have managed to be in a long-term relationship. If you also desire to make your teenage relationship a strong one, then try to inculcate these following habits:

Be friends first

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It is very important to start a love relationship with friendship rather than being lovers form the very first day. The motive behind this gesture is to bring a clear understanding. If you will become friends first and spend some time together, you will get to know him or her well. You will get to know the goods and the bad, and accordingly after some time you will be in a better position to decide whether you actually want to date him or not. Knowing everything about each other and then getting into a love relationship is the key to a happy and a long-term relationship. On the other hand, if you straightaway say yes for an affair, after few days you will get to know his turn-offs and your relationship will end as soon as it started.

Listen more talk less

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Teenage is all about childishness and a kind of selfish behavior, as in “I” come before “You”. Many teenage love relationships end because of the lack of understanding. This lack of understanding comes because of improper communication. Your partner comes and starts talking his heart out to you but you are not ready to listen to him, rather you start telling your own tales to him. This leads to misunderstanding and this behavior sends a message to your partner that you have no respect for his talks, which is wrong. Therefore, all you teenagers talk less and listen more. By this, we mean that do not start talking when your partner starts telling you his blues, rather listen to him carefully and offer help if possible. If you do this, your bond will grow strong and will last long.

Too much of expectation is bad

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Just like an affair in the later years of life, too much of expectations in a teenage relationship are also bad. Therefore, never expect a lot and always support your partner and keep each other happy. Rather than burdening each other with unfair demands, you should try to be each other’s inspiration, support, company, and a fun partner. If you both will be happy in each other’s company then of course your relationship will last long.

Do not let irrational jealousy enter your relationship

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Jealousy is a negative feeling that is there in healthy relationships. It is a feeling that requires instant attention; otherwise, it could make things bad for a relationship. Whenever you feel jealous, try to find out its cause. In case you fail to find a valid cause, means it is an irrational jealousy so get rid of it at the earliest.

Summary:

Majority of teenage relationships do not last long but some of them really do. They are the ones wherein teenagers take every precaution so that their immaturity and dynamic nature does not come in the way of their love relationship.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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The problems that trouble extroverts, and those they deal with in secret http://drprem.com/love/problems-trouble-extroverts-deal-secret http://drprem.com/love/problems-trouble-extroverts-deal-secret#comments Mon, 17 Nov 2014 10:59:14 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10297 There are two types of people in this world, in fact three – the introverts, the extroverts, and the ambiverts. The introverts are the ones who manage to derive other’s sympathy and concern owing to their shy and timid nature. Such people talk less; do not mix up with people and like living in an ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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There are two types of people in this world, in fact three – the introverts, the extroverts, and the ambiverts. The introverts are the ones who manage to derive other’s sympathy and concern owing to their shy and timid nature. Such people talk less; do not mix up with people and like living in an enclosed environment. On the other hand are the extroverts who are outspoken, are chilled out and do not hesitate mixing up with the ones with whom they are not acquainted.

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Coming down to the ambiverts, well they are people who are an ideal mix of both the introverts and the extroverts. It is normally thought that introverts are the ones whose life is difficult but hardly anybody is seen talking about the hardships of extroverts because people’s perception is like this. Extroverts are thought of as someone whose life is easy and free from hardships just because of his outspoken and outgoing nature. However, this perception is untrue because extroverts also have hardships but the only difference is that their outgoing nature covers up their lament. They are not as delicate and complex like the introverts but they also face troubles and deal with them secretly. Click through to find out troubles that poor extroverts have to deal with secretly:

People assume that extroverts are always confident

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Being an extrovert has a fair share of troubles that rise because of misconceptions people have. People think no matter what situation an extrovert is in, they have to be confident, which is not true. There is no denying the fact that extroverts are more confident than introverts are but the assumption that extroverts are confident in every situation holds no true. Many extroverts feel uncomfortable and challenged under some circumstances and they do not feel confident all the time.

Extroverts cannot be sad

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There is no doubt that extrovert people are happy-go-lucky and outgoing, which is in contrast to many introverts who like staying quiet in their shell. The problem here is that when a person does something daily and suddenly stops doing that, other people find it hard to understand the reason behind such weird behavior. An extrovert laughs and makes other people laugh and talks a lot, but when an extrovert is sad people start questioning, which is embarrassing for an extrovert to answer. It feels like as if extroverts can only be happy and they have no right to feel sad.

People misinterpret their friendly nature with flirtation

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Extroverts are confident, they like company of others, and to strike a conversation with any new person is not a problem for them. However, people sometimes misinterpret their outspoken nature for flirtation, which is too disheartening and saddening for an extrovert. An extrovert tries to be friendly with everybody but other people find an extrovert to be hitting upon someone.

People expect extroverts to talk in meetings but later on criticize

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Shy and timid people try to escape situations wherein they fear that they will have to start a conversation, or places like meetings where they feel embarrassed to talk, so it is always an extrovert whom people expect to break the ice in such situations. Everybody knows that extroverts have the guts to do public speaking proficiently. However, some introvert people who themselves lack the art of public speaking criticize an extrovert who talks a lot at meetings or get together. Introverts use criticism to backlash extroverts in order to give a vent to their frustration that rises because of their own incapability. This reaction is heartbreaking for some extroverts but they do not have any other option than to deal with it secretly and patiently.

Summary:

Like introverts, the life of extroverts has also a fair share of troubles but the difference lies in their reaction, as extroverts deal with all pains patiently and secretively.

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Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)
Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Keeping your mental health sound after a breakup http://drprem.com/love/keeping-mental-health-sound-breakup http://drprem.com/love/keeping-mental-health-sound-breakup#comments Sat, 15 Nov 2014 13:56:42 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10276 Breaking up with someone with whom you were in a relationship for years, months, or even a few days hurts. The degree of pain and hurt varies depending upon the time, the intensity of love, the individual nature, and personality. Sometimes the pain felt over a breakup is similar to the pain one feel when ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Breaking up with someone with whom you were in a relationship for years, months, or even a few days hurts. The degree of pain and hurt varies depending upon the time, the intensity of love, the individual nature, and personality. Sometimes the pain felt over a breakup is similar to the pain one feel when some loved one dies. Breakups are threatening for people’s health, especially the mental health. Grieving over a split for some time is fine, even healthy, but not for a very long time, as it has a bad effect on a person’s health.

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When other people tell a person with a broken heart to relax and stay happy, he finds it hard to understand that how can people expect him to be normal when such a big thing has just happened to him. In such a low-lying life condition, a person forgets to live a normal life but it should not be this way. You have to be strong if you want to come out of the ditch of break up. You are supposed to counter destructive thoughts and this is only possible if you are in the right frame of mind, if your mental health is fine. Following are simple yet effective steps that one can take in order to make one’s mental health all good after a breakup:

Boost self-confidence

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A heartbroken person loses self-confidence and sometimes thinks that he is not normal. This is something that worsens the situation of people who have just had a breakup. Such people should always think that the conditions are against him at present but soon everything will turn to normal, and you are not crazy, you are just out of balance owing to the present negative circumstances.

Love yourself

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It is of paramount importance to love yourself always, and even more after a breakup. Usually, the dumped person starts to think that he is all alone and nobody loves him. This thinking elevates the mood of a person, makes him courageous and confident. People will only love you if you love yourself, so come what may never forget to love yourself.

Do not regret things of past

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After breaking up with a long time partner with whom one has shared so many magical moments, feelings, and you can say life, all what comes to mind is regret. Many questions appear in mind like why did I fall in love at first place, how could she do this to me, why did I waste my time with her, and numerous other questions that evoke painful emotions in an individual. However, one should never let regrets overpower the mind and heart and should take it in a way that things were normal but they are now different. Thinking this way certainly reduces the amount of painful emotions up surging in an individual.

Kill that hope

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Although they say, that one should always be hopeful but in the case of a split-up, it is sometimes good to let go of a hope. Unless you thing there is a strong possibility of getting back together with your beloved, it is no point sitting all hopeful that you will reunite with your beloved soon. This kind of hope can be extremely dangerous for your mental health, as you will stay engrossed in thoughts of your ex and you would unnecessarily keep making plans that would do no good to you, rather they only hurt. It is better to kill that hope and think about the future possibilities that can change your life for good.

Summary

Break ups have a bad influence over a person’s health, and majorly on the mental health. One needs to understand the risks, know their own situation, and most importantly, let go of the relationship.

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Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)
Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Emotional stages you pass through after a breakup http://drprem.com/love/emotional-stages-pass-breakup http://drprem.com/love/emotional-stages-pass-breakup#comments Sat, 08 Nov 2014 13:56:41 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10275 Depending upon the seriousness of a relationship, the level of emotional trauma that comes with a breakup also varies, as in, the teenage breakups are less painful compared to the ones that one goes through in the later years of life. Breakups put one on a roller coaster ride of emotions that is not easy ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Depending upon the seriousness of a relationship, the level of emotional trauma that comes with a breakup also varies, as in, the teenage breakups are less painful compared to the ones that one goes through in the later years of life. Breakups put one on a roller coaster ride of emotions that is not easy to deal with. It requires great patience, and understanding. An understanding that whatever is happening to you after a breakup is normal, like the anger, frustration, and the mood swings you are having are obvious. In addition, the behavior, which is not normal, is when you decide not to move on and to cling to the olden days and feelings because doing this would do you no good, rather it will only hurt you. Following are the emotional stages, which every individual passes through after a breakup:

Shock

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Breakup comes as a big shock, sometimes so big that people find it better to end their lives than to go through this turmoil but this is the biggest mistake to commit, in fact, it is a crime. A shock is natural, and some people use disbelief as a defense mechanism against it. Some continue to disbelieve their breakup for days, weeks, and even months. This phase is tough, which one can make easy and less painful by practicing meditation and other activities that help to calm them down.

Denial

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Denial is an emotional response that we human beings use in difficult situations where we do not quite like the reality. It is a way to give a fake consolation to our mind that nothing hurtful is happening, although in reality it happens. The denial stage in a breakup is when a partner has not completely given up on his relation and still hopes to reunite. In this phase, some calls, emails, and texts are normal.

Seclusion

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Seclusion or isolation is one dangerous stage in a breakup. It comes after one accepts a breakup and goes in a stupor. The person starts living in the flashback and hurts oneself by rewinding all the past memories. It gets even worse when one starts either blaming oneself for a breakup, or regrets falling in love at the first place.

A person withdraws oneself from the outer world and likes to sit all alone in a room, and sometimes in dark. Many a times such people completely ignore their personal hygiene and do not feel like taking showers or getting haircuts. This is a serious emotional stage and the person should put in all efforts to come out of it as soon as possible.

Depression

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After a break up, a person feels upsurge of two emotions altogether, anger and guilt. One keeps going to the past, muses over times spent together, and goes into depression. One feels as if everything has ended and finds it hard to get over him or her. One feels guilty, angry, regret falling in love and getting into a relationship. Their state resembles one being in a mild depression but one should be strong enough to get over these negative feelings and be positive and hopeful about a bright and a prosperous future.

Acceptance

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Acceptance is the last stage, and this stage comes only when an absolute understanding comes in and you learn that things went wrong but now you will make them right and lead a better life, much better than before. Now you feel energetic and positive, and the thoughts that prevail in your mind are about future and very few about the past. It is like a beginning of a new life.

Summary

Breakup is a roller coaster ride of emotions, which starts with all negative and sad emotions and moves to an all positive and high-spirited emotions. It is imperative to remain level headed throughout the ordeal, and keep yourself in check.

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Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)
Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Why breakups hurt and why do they require fast acceptance http://drprem.com/love/breakups-hurt-require-fast-acceptance http://drprem.com/love/breakups-hurt-require-fast-acceptance#comments Mon, 03 Nov 2014 10:14:00 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10269 It is a universal law that a breakup with our beloved hurts, and sometimes it hurts so bad that some people do not even hesitate to take serious steps as suicides. Therefore, a question arises that what it is that hurts so badly after a breakup. Why breakups hurt When we get into a relationship, ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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It is a universal law that a breakup with our beloved hurts, and sometimes it hurts so bad that some people do not even hesitate to take serious steps as suicides. Therefore, a question arises that what it is that hurts so badly after a breakup.

Why breakups hurt

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When we get into a relationship, it is a magical moment. One feels high-spirited and feels as if he or she is the only love of their life. Both partners confide in each other mentally and physically. Both look forward to meet each other every day because they find sheer happiness in each other’s company. Late night conversations over phone, long drives, weekend vacations, and much more stuff that the love birds enjoy doing together. They start sharing a unique bond that is amiss in the relationship that people share with other people in life. This relationship becomes one of the most precious possessions in life, which one does not like even think of losing.

As time passes, partners develop a fantasy bond. A fantasy bond is one wherein partners fantasize about their future together in each other’s company. The future plans of their wedding, family, children, and old age, are often cooked and garnished in their mind. However, both partners fear separation; they fear the loss of their lovely bond, the fear of losing one’s most beloved person. When the mere thought of separation is so damn painful and disturbing, so when it actually happens, you can well imagine what level of mental torture it brings with itself. When a fantasy bond breaks, it leaves both partners overwhelmingly shattered, emotionally, mentally, and physically. No matter what reason caused a breakup but it makes it too hard for the partners to accept it. They find themselves helpless without the one whom they thought of as their soul mate.

One needs to accept breakups ASAP

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There is no denying the fact that breaking up with a loved one is one of the most painful phenomena one experiences in life, as it puts you in an emotional phase full of anger, regrets, depression, frustration, and tremendous pain. However, there is a dire need for everybody going through this tough phase to stop clinging to the past and move on in life, and this is one thing that you can only do if you make yourself strong. Otherwise, if you choose to cling to your past, all it would give you is pain and tears. One needs to learn that what is gone has to be forgotten because the old memories overpower our mind and stop us from moving on in life.

Therefore, it is of paramount importance to accept a breakup soon after it happens. You have to face it and accept it, rather than crying over it and hurt yourself. You have to face that you are hurt, you are sad, and you are lonely. Go for an emotional release, as in talk your heart out to your friends, or do it with yourself but never ever engage in self-destructive behavior like drug abuse. Doing this, will certainly make you feel better and that too after a short period of your breakup. Then accept the fact that you were also partly responsible for a breakup because blaming is one thing that even worsens this sort of critical situation. Once you do these two things, you are ready to explore the next love of your life.

Summary

Breakups do hurt a lot but if we learn to accept them, it reduces the suffering and helps us move on with our life, and find happiness.

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Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)
Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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