Love Guide by Dr Prem http://drprem.com/love Ultimate guide to Love, Romance, Dating and Relationship Sat, 20 Dec 2014 12:16:19 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Traits that help to find a con in a relationship http://drprem.com/love/traits-help-find-con-relationship http://drprem.com/love/traits-help-find-con-relationship#comments Sat, 20 Dec 2014 12:16:19 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10417 Love is such a beautiful thing, and being in a love relationship with your partner is even more beautiful. Meeting your special someone for the first time, or that first time you talk to him over telephone is just magical. It is like flying in the colorful sky without any fetters and limitations. A relationship ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Love is such a beautiful thing, and being in a love relationship with your partner is even more beautiful. Meeting your special someone for the first time, or that first time you talk to him over telephone is just magical. It is like flying in the colorful sky without any fetters and limitations. A relationship starts with a person we find we can confide into, and share those intimate and most exclusive moments with them.

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If these feelings are mutual in both the partners then things go well, but if one of the partners do not have this similar motive behind being in a relationship, then the trouble starts. Some men and women start a relationship just to serve their selfish and wicked motives; they are con men and women. Con men and women are a part of this day-to-day world and especially of the virtual world, wherein they eye the opposite sex people like vultures and trap the one who is easy to fool. Usually, money is the main motive because the con men and women know that the easiest and the quickest way to someone’s wealth goes through their heart.

It would not be any wrong to say that the con men and women are perfect artists, as they play the game so well that their partner has a hard time identifying their evil interest. Luckily, there are certain behavioral and other warning signs that you can understand and guard yourself against the cons.

Too good-looking profile picture

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This one goes for people who like to make friends and start a relationship with someone whom they meet over social networking sites. Whenever you someone’s profile picture that seems to be too good and beautiful, a question must strike in your mind. If a picture seems to be too professional, your suspicion level must rise because there are scammers who make use of the pictures posted by some models and try to fool people.

Therefore, when you start chatting with them, ask them to post some more pictures, especially the ones that show them in their laid-back routine. If they do not satisfy your suspicions, leave them and block them once and for all.

They prefer to move fast

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You meet someone online today, exchange a few e-mails and messages, and today itself he asks you for your number, then too soon he calls you for a meeting.. Stop! This is not good, as one need to proceed with caution if one wants to have everything good and normal. The fakes or the cons are usually the ones who are always in hurry to move onto the next level because all they are concerned about is their final step, which is not a long-term relationship, but to ditch and deceive. So beware.

Too good to be true person

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Scammers and cons are adept at befooling people with their made up persona, the one that is too good to be real. For instance, a decent, beautiful, and sensible divorcee woman or a man, who claims to have fallen in true love with you, a beautiful foreign woman who wants some help, or a wealthy doctor who has got someone like you for the first time in life.

Often demand of money

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Money is one factor and the most important signal, which can help you get rid of a con man or a woman. Such people start asking for money after a short period only. Never give money if you do not know the person well, and especially to your virtual friend. Do not entertain anybody who quite often demands money.

Summary

There is no dearth of good people and true lovers in this world but there is no shortage of scammers and the cons. One should have firsthand knowledge of the basic warning signs that can save us falling in trap of such con artists.

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Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Skills that help stop a fight in love before it starts http://drprem.com/love/skills-help-stop-fight-love-starts http://drprem.com/love/skills-help-stop-fight-love-starts#comments Tue, 16 Dec 2014 12:29:23 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10416 Be it a small fight in a relationship or a war between two nations, both have almost the same reason that gives it a start. A war starts between two nations when one of them tries to impose its will on another. When one nation feels that, the other nation is trying to get its ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Be it a small fight in a relationship or a war between two nations, both have almost the same reason that gives it a start. A war starts between two nations when one of them tries to impose its will on another. When one nation feels that, the other nation is trying to get its way and is dictating a law then the conflict starts, which eventually leads to a war. Similar is the case of love relationships. When a person feels that his partner is taking him for granted and is trying to impose her will on him, he starts feeling agitated and frustrated, which comes out in the form of small fights.

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If this situation continues, the person starts feeling that his partner is more like a dictator who keeps dictating rules and laws all the time. All this happening disturbs the other partner and he starts finding his relationship to be disgusting and then a couple starts bickering that sometimes leads to major fights as well. There is a dire need for both the partners to understand the side effects of fighting so that they ensure to refrain from fights, even the smallest of them. It requires mutual efforts of both the partners that help them to stay calm and loving towards each other. A couple needs to learn all tactics and skills that teach a couple to stop a fight even before it actually starts. Following are the skills and tactics that you must get the hang of to make your relationship an evergreen and a happy one:

Resolve potential issues

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Sometimes one partner or the other in a relationship lets things simmer and one fine day takes out all that is not at all conducive for a healthy relationship. They let things grow, let their feelings become worse and then let them out on their partner, which takes form of an ear-blistering fight. To escape this hard situation, both the partners must talk to each other and ask each other about reasons that are bothering them. Both should be observant about each other’s behavior and especially the irregularity in behavior so that they can bring things under control much before they actually take a deadly form.

Diplomacy can be good

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They say that diplomacy is not good but sometimes being diplomatic in a relationship is good, as it enables you to keep you and your partner happy. You have to understand that your partner is not your enemy and there is no way that she is your contender. In fact, both the partners in a relationship are like two pillars, any less support and contribution from one partner can break a relationship. Even when your partner sometimes complains or tries to impose their will on you, simply take it in a good way, because in the end one thing that you both desire for is a happy and a healthy relationship.

Compromise is good but too much is bad

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If you think compromise is the best and ideal way to make your partner happy, you are wrong. Women do not like men who do not stand up for themselves and leave everything on them to do. For instance, while planning about vacations, you leave the choice of place completely on your wife. Doing so would make her feel as if you are not interested and this is why you have no idea to offer. Therefore, initially express your desire as well, and then if you think that taking your wife to a place of her choice would be better, then go for it.

Summary

To stop a fight before it starts is a key to a happy and a contented relationship of a couple. Both the partners in a relationship must know how to do this if they want a happy and a long relationship.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Relationship pitfalls to be wary of http://drprem.com/love/relationship-pitfalls-wary http://drprem.com/love/relationship-pitfalls-wary#comments Sat, 13 Dec 2014 05:00:34 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10407 Life of a human being is full of relationships, be it a relationship with a friend, family, relatives, neighbors, children, or with a beloved. Every relationship has its certain rules and regulations, which when observed with loyalty, make a relationship work. We all yearn for lives wherein good people and happy relationships surround us, and ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Life of a human being is full of relationships, be it a relationship with a friend, family, relatives, neighbors, children, or with a beloved. Every relationship has its certain rules and regulations, which when observed with loyalty, make a relationship work. We all yearn for lives wherein good people and happy relationships surround us, and we feel happy and keep others happy. However, reality is a bit different, as making a relationship successful and happy is not an easy task, and it surely is not everyone’s cup of tea.

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Here, we are referring to love relationships, which demand equal participation of both partners in order to keep the love and happiness alive, and to maintain a strong bond forever. It requires many qualities and determination in both the partners to get along together in a harmonious way, and to conquer all pitfalls that come in the way. The pitfalls are traps and evil plots, and once you fall in, it becomes really hard to save your relationship from adversities.

It is better you be cautious of all such pitfalls and prevent hardships and obstacles to come and harm your bond. Click through to find out the pitfalls that one should be wary about in a relationship:

The Change Pitfall

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Change is a universal truth, we all have heard this innumerable times, still many of us in a love relationship tend to forget this truth and do not change. For instance, when a relationship starts, both the partners happen to share many mutual beliefs and likings, but with the passing time, there comes a change of thought and opinions and preferences in people. It is normal, as change makes life interesting and shuns monotony. Trouble sets in when only one partner changes while the other keeps clinging to the old nature, behavior, and thinking. Under such circumstances, the conflicts between partners upsurge and bitterness ushers in a relationship. The conflicts can take some real serious forms as well, so ensure that you and your partner are on the same page regarding every single change, and both the partners must have appreciation for the change that comes in each other over a period.

The Taken for Granted Pitfall

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When we fall in love with someone, we are ready to serve him or her well and at times, we do not even mind to go out of the way to make him or her happy. One does not expect something big in return but just a few words of appreciation and recognition. These two things are of paramount importance to keep a relationship going in a smooth and a harmonious manner. In some relationships, one partner starts taking the other partner’s love and care for granted, and believe me there is nothing more frustrating than this. One partner keeps doing all good and loving stuff and the other partner stops putting in efforts to make the other feel special. This is one of the biggest reasons of bitterness in relationships, so beware of this deadly pitfall.

The Communication Pitfall

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Communication is an integral part of any relationship, and lack of communication or improper communication is potent enough to break or make a relationship bitter. Three types of communication are bad for a relationship. First, the one that is manipulative. Second, the communication that one uses to deceive one’s partner, it cause a breach in trust, and the third is a communication that has double meanings, as it creates utter confusion and eventually frustration in partners.

Summary:

Love relationship is a path filed with many special moments along with a number of pitfalls and traps that try their best to make relationships problematic. To have a perfect relationship, people need to know what those pitfalls are and how to avoid them.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Should parents limit teen relationships http://drprem.com/love/parents-limit-teen-relationships http://drprem.com/love/parents-limit-teen-relationships#comments Mon, 01 Dec 2014 05:47:28 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10395 Teenage is a very enjoyable, joyous, and a conflicted age. It is joyous and enjoyable, as many things happen to start to a teenager for very first time in life, so a teenager seems to enjoy some changes and happenings. On the other hand, a teenage life is full of conflicts and confusions regarding so ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Teenage is a very enjoyable, joyous, and a conflicted age. It is joyous and enjoyable, as many things happen to start to a teenager for very first time in life, so a teenager seems to enjoy some changes and happenings. On the other hand, a teenage life is full of conflicts and confusions regarding so many changes taking place.

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At times, it gets hard for a teenager to understand all that is happening because their mind is not that capable to understand everything and behave with utmost maturity. This is why parents of teenagers also remain worried about their child’s behavior and whereabouts because they understand that their teenage child is not able enough to deal well with situations that demand a mind of an elder person.

One such thing that parents fear and want their teenage children to be away from is the teenage romance. Teenage relationships are very exciting and fun-filled for the teens, as most of them fall in love with the opposite sex for the very first time. Some teenagers talk regarding their first love or crush to their parents honestly and frankly, while others prefer it better to hide such feelings from their parents.

Some of them do not even let their crush know that they adore them and they do it all secretly. Now, there are some reasons that make a teenager hide his feelings such as hesitance, shyness, and the fear of rejection. Teenagers are over sensitive and over emotional, so they fear rejection so much that they keep adoring someone but do not go and let that person know their feelings, while some others are daring enough to do all this.

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Overall, a teenage love, or a love relationship for a teenager is a very special thing. It is a happy phase for them but quite a skeptical phase for their parents. Children are happy during this phase because all they know is the good thing about teenage love, they do not know the bad side of it, whereas parents know both the good and the bad, and this is what makes parents skeptical about their child’s relationship.

Parents do not feel comfortable about this teenage love thing and this is the reason many parents are always worried and try to keep a check on their child’s whereabouts. Sometimes teenagers do not like their parents for being possessive about them, as they think that their parents spy on them. However, parents do nothing wrong and they have all the reasons to justify their behavior. Following are the reasons that give a kind of green signal to parents to keep a check on their teenage child and restrict their love relationships:

Teenage love is just a physical attraction

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Love is what teenagers define their feelings to be but it is nothing more than a physical attraction. Teenagers are not to be blamed because it is the hormonal change that makes them feel so but at that point in their lives they do not understand this.

Teenagers are far away from the reality

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Teenagers live in a fairyland and hardly are they in touch with reality. Only prohibitive actions of parents keep teenagers under control.

For teenagers love is sex

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Many teenagers find it normal to have sex, as they believe that having sex in a relationship is must. Parents understand the negative consequences of this teenage belief and this is why they set boundaries for teenagers.

Teenagers get into depression

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The oversensitive nature of teenagers makes them fall into depression even after a mild rejection, and they are likely to fall in drug abuse and all. To save teenagers from such bad habits, parents keep restricting their whereabouts and change in behaviour.

Summary

Parents are right when they restrict and set boundaries for their teenage children because parents know that their child is not wise enough to save himself from the adversities, therefore, they try their best to save children by setting boundaries for them.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Key to keep romance and passion alive in love relationships http://drprem.com/love/key-keep-romance-passion-alive-love-relationships http://drprem.com/love/key-keep-romance-passion-alive-love-relationships#comments Sun, 30 Nov 2014 11:02:04 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10305 A love relationship starts when two individuals fall truly, madly, and deeply in love with each other. Everything seems so beautiful and life seems to be blissful. Both the partners in a relationship like nothing else as much as they like to spend time in each other’s company. The mere thought of meeting each other ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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A love relationship starts when two individuals fall truly, madly, and deeply in love with each other. Everything seems so beautiful and life seems to be blissful. Both the partners in a relationship like nothing else as much as they like to spend time in each other’s company. The mere thought of meeting each other make them feel butterflies in the stomach and some even dream of meeting their beloved every day.

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However, many people complain that the true, mad, and the deep love that they experienced at the start seems to vanish as years pass. The intensity of romance and passion dips and the craze gets lost. Some couples find this phenomenon to be very frustrating, while some others try to put in all efforts to bring back the initial amount of passion and romance in their relationship. It is very much possible to keep passion and romance alive in love relationships even after years. Click through to find out some ways that can help you do so:

Use simple gestures to express your love

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You need not indulge in extravagant ways to express your love for your beloved, as all it requires are simple gestures that can make your partner feel good and keep the love and romance intact in a relationship even after many years. You can write small chits and keep them under their pillow, text them pretty often in a day and express how much you love them and care for them. When you are away from home do call your partner and express how much you miss their absence.

Put in efforts to make life interesting

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Both the partners must try to ward off the “I am bored” phase out of their love life. Boredom is one thing that can eat away the happiness and charm of a love relationship. Therefore, both the partners should think of ways to make like more exciting and interesting, for instance both partners can develop a hobby, can go for adventure holidays, or can indulge in any other way that is a source of happiness for both the partners.

Arrange for an intimate time

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Time today is so busy that it keeps everybody overly tied up. This is one major reason that people complain is responsible for their disrupted love life. Make it a point, no matter how busy you are, do take out time everyday to spend exclusively with your partner. Both the partners should go together on morning walks, come back and have a shower together, sit in bed for some time and praise each other, and then go for your respective works. Take out time for some intimate moments at night as well. Do this every day and you will never experience the loss of romance and passion in your love life.

Communicate

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Lack of communication is another major reason that contributes big deal to make a relationship devoid of romance and passion in the long – run. As a relationship starts, everything seems magical and even if there are certain flaws in partners, each tries to cover them up because the level of adjustment is quite high in initial days. However, after some years the partners start taking each other for granted and start finding more and more faults in each other. Besides this, the level of adjustment also starts dipping. Under such circumstances, if the partners do not communicate in a proper manner, the complaints keep on stacking and the frustration keep on increasing, and someday or the other it bursts and the outcome which comes is even worse. Therefore, whatever the problem is, whatever complaint you have against your partner, make it a point that you discuss it that very day, which would help you keep passion and romance alive.

Summary:

It is just a myth that passion and romance vanish in long term relationships, as with a few gestures and efforts ultimate passion and romance can be kept alive in a love relationship forever.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Tips to make a platonic relationship work http://drprem.com/love/tips-make-platonic-relationship-work http://drprem.com/love/tips-make-platonic-relationship-work#comments Sat, 29 Nov 2014 11:02:03 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10304 Can a girl and boy be just friends? This one question comes in the mind of many people and often leaves them confused. However, there is no need to feel confused, as a sure shot answer to this question is that yes, a boy and a girl can be friends for as long as they ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Can a girl and boy be just friends? This one question comes in the mind of many people and often leaves them confused. However, there is no need to feel confused, as a sure shot answer to this question is that yes, a boy and a girl can be friends for as long as they want to. The only thing is that they should know how to make their relationship work. This type of relationship is called a platonic relationship that is not quite easy to maintain for the boy and a girl for many reasons.

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The first reason might be the sexual urges that sometimes overpower their mind to get on top of each other, but a strong will and mind enables both friends to get over this situation. Then sometimes it becomes difficult for platonic fiends to make their love partners understand the importance of each other in life. Many a times it happens that love partners misunderstand the relationship of their partners with their platonic friend. Leaving all negatives behind, a platonic relationship is fun and very fulfilling for both the partners. If you also desire a platonic relationship then read further to find out what one should do to make such a relationship work:

Trust each other

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To nurture a platonic relationship, both need to trust each other and themselves. Even if you have seen in movies that a boy and a girl never remain friends and ultimately they fall in love with each other, it is just a myth. Take it out of your mind and consider the fact that you and your friend are made to be friends and nothing more.

Rules and boundaries are very important

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Setting up some rules and boundaries is an integral part of platonic relationships. There ought to be clear cur rules for this sort of relationship. If you have decided to be in a platonic relationship then you have to see each other as siblings and good friends, nothing more than this. If both the partners know their limits from day one, there is a possibility that both partners will never cross their limits, can enjoy a platonic relationship free from doubts, and loaded with relaxation.

Let others think what they want to

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Everybody in this world is free to have their own opinions and viewpoints, and you have to be ready for people’s strange reactions over your friendship. They might ask stupid questions and talk behind your back, but as long as you both are happy and comfortable, these things should never bother you. It is seen that platonic relationships have ended because of other people.

In some cases the platonic partners have backed out because they found it hard to bear the criticism of people, while some other relationships turned into a couple just because people told them to, and soon ended breaking up. Platonic relationships are sweet and pure, and they do not deserve such tragic ends at all. In order to escape such tragic ends, you got to listen to your own heart and mind, and turn a deaf ear to what other’s speak about your relationship.

Be realistic

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Initially it is pretty normal to have some sexual feelings for your platonic partner once in a while. You need not blame yourself too hard, or feel ashamed of it all the time. Such feelings are normal in the initial days but with time, you need to learn self-control and then such feelings should never overpower your mind. If you think you cannot get control over these urges, then it is better to walk out of a platonic relationship.

Summary:

A platonic relationship requires a strong will and a mind that prevents sex from coming in the way of a pure and a solid friendship between a boy and a girl.

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Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Learning how to revive a dying relationship http://drprem.com/love/learning-revive-dying-relationship http://drprem.com/love/learning-revive-dying-relationship#comments Thu, 27 Nov 2014 11:02:02 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10303 If your relationship on the verge of dying but you do not want to let go of your significant other, the situation calls for some tactics that help you reignite the flame of love in your relationship. Read further to find out several ways that are efficient enough to revive a dying relationship: Communicate Lack ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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If your relationship on the verge of dying but you do not want to let go of your significant other, the situation calls for some tactics that help you reignite the flame of love in your relationship. Read further to find out several ways that are efficient enough to revive a dying relationship:

Communicate

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Lack of understanding is one major reason that causes a love relationship to die. One partner feels that another does not care for him and does not understand him. While another partner complains that whenever I go to her to discuss problems, she never listens and starts grumbling over many things. This is a big issue, which requires instant solution and a perfect solution to this problem is communication. Try to understand each other’s situation and make each other feel that you care for them.

Give time to each other

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Time is another factor that makes relationships weak. If you think your relationship is dying because you do not give enough time to your partner then make sure you start giving sufficient time to each other. Come home on time, and homemakers must finish their work early and take out enough time to spend exclusively with each other. Plan short trips over weekends, or go out in the evenings, whatever you do but do give each other fair amount of time.

Praise and appreciate

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When a relationship starts, both the partners have immense love for each other, and probably this is why they notice each other so well and appreciate and praise every small thing, quality, or characteristic that their partner has. A dying relationship misses this quality; therefore, to start appreciating each other with a true heart is of great help to save a relationship from dying.

Solve problems and conflicts

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Whatever problems and conflicts start in a relationship, both the partners must understand that it is their mutual contribution that brought in conflicts. Therefore, they both are the only ones who can figure out what and where have they gone wrong, and once the cause is figured out, start working to solve it. Sometimes when the situation goes out of control then partners must seek external help of a counsellor or friends but the best solution can only come when both the partners sit and talk about the real problem and the ways to get rid of it.

Have respect for each other’s space

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You must have heard that “absence makes the heart grow fonder”, and too much of togetherness can bring an element of boredom into a love relationship. It is like clinging on to your partner anywhere and everywhere he goes, even if he wants some time to stay away with you, you do not let him do so. This thing works as a poison for a relationship. It brings in so much of negativity and the partners feel like staying away from each other most of the times. You should always respect each other’s personal space, one should understand that no matter how deep your partner is in love with you, he or she still require a personal space for their overall development. Therefore, people stop forcing your partner to be with you all the time if you want your relationship to sail smoothly and not die.

Kill the ego

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Ego is a belief that makes a person think that he is always right, and this belief makes him stubborn. If both the partners become egoistic in a love relationship then they can never get along nicely. Both partners will continue to bicker, and no one will be ready to compromise. Therefore, leave your ego aside and be good and sensitive human beings.

Summary:

A love relationship depends upon the mutual qualities of both partners. In order to save a dying relationship, both the partners need to introspect and get rid of negative behavior.

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Getting back to life after a tough breakup http://drprem.com/love/getting-back-life-tough-breakup http://drprem.com/love/getting-back-life-tough-breakup#comments Tue, 25 Nov 2014 10:59:20 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10302 A person’s world goes upside down after a break up. He finds it extremely difficult to move on in his life, as innumerable memories of his beloved bombard him. It is such a painful stage for many people that they find themselves in utter confusion and mayhem. The confusion regarding the decision whether one should ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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A person’s world goes upside down after a break up. He finds it extremely difficult to move on in his life, as innumerable memories of his beloved bombard him. It is such a painful stage for many people that they find themselves in utter confusion and mayhem. The confusion regarding the decision whether one should move on in life or keep living with a hope. Hope is a positive thing but sometimes after breakups, it is a hope that makes things worse, as in the sufferer continues suffering in a hope, that everything would soon patch and again they will be together with their beloved. However, in reality the things are not so.

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Some breakups have a room for compromise and reunion, while the others do not. Lovers are supposed to be wise enough to find the difference between these two sorts of breakups if they want to go through minimum amount of turmoil post break up. Sometimes it is better to leave hopes and start a new life. You need to recollect all memories, the good and the bad ones, analyze them and try to seek a result on which your life depends. If you have a feeling that your relation should not end so you can put some efforts to reunite, on the other hand if you feel that nothing is going to change then leave all hopes, free yourself from the shackles of past memories and move on in life. As soon as you will decide to move on, the less agony you will have to face. Once you take a decision to move on, these three following tips will make your journey less painful and positive:

Give yourself sometime

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Human mind is unlike a computer memory from which you can easily delete stuff with a few clicks. Human mind takes a good deal of time to forget things, in fact it is not forgetting but our mind and heart learns to accept things as they are after some time. Whatever your emotions are, anger, frustration, sadness, guilt, regret, remorse, just bring them all out. There is no need to feel any embarrassment over the occurrence of emotions, as they are all normal. Give vent to all such emotions and you will certainly feel better and it will help you a lot to move on in life with optimism.

Stay in present

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Human mind is usually filled with thoughts related to our past, present, and the future. After a breakup, try to stick your mind exclusively to the present thoughts, as the past memories only hurt and nothing else. For this matter, even the plans and thoughts that you had shared with your partner related to future will also hurt you. Therefore, the only way to save you from the pain and frustration is to stay in the present and forget about the past and the future. Stay in present and let the wounds heal naturally.

Learn a lesson

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Breakups do hurt but they teach a lesson too and make one wise. One can learn important love lessons from breakups and use them to make their future relationships flawless and brimming with happiness. All of us term breakups as failures because we fail to realize the importance of the lesson that a break up teaches us. They make us better human beings as we get rid of our mistakes after learning about them. Breakups make us strong physically, emotionally and mentally, as they teach us not to solely depend upon another person.

Summary

Breakups do hurt but it is very important for a person to take control of him soon after a breakup and put in efforts to move on in life.

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Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Things you should do to make relationship work http://drprem.com/love/things-make-relationship-work http://drprem.com/love/things-make-relationship-work#comments Sun, 23 Nov 2014 10:59:18 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10301 Love relationship is a beautiful combination of so many things that if they are in absolute order, nothing can make a love relationship fail. If a relationship lacks these important things, then nothing can make a relationship happy and satisfying. Click through what are the important factors that are essential to make a relationship work: ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Love relationship is a beautiful combination of so many things that if they are in absolute order, nothing can make a love relationship fail. If a relationship lacks these important things, then nothing can make a relationship happy and satisfying. Click through what are the important factors that are essential to make a relationship work:

Communication

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Communication is the most important factor in a relationship. It is the way to express your happiness, complaints, and grievances to your partner. Some people do not give much importance to communication in relationships, and sadly end up having breakups. On the other hand, some people think that if they will speak up on every issue that might end up their relationship. Well, people get this thing straight that communication never breaks up a relation, but the lack of it certainly does. If you do not express your feelings as and when they appear, they will keep stacking up and one day they will burst and cause a break up. Therefore, communicate a lot with your partner and enjoy a healthy relationship.

Availability

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Availability is one factor that determines how strong or weak the bond is between couples. Both the partners should have this feeling that they have someone to fall back upon in the sad and the bad times of their life. Whenever a partner hits rough road, the other should always be available for them and should offer every possible help. It should not be as if your partner is having a tough time and you are enjoying your life or not giving enough time to your partner. Partners should be comforting figures for one another and the pillars of strength on which they can lean upon anytime and anywhere.

Friendship

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The higher the level of friendship between partners, the higher is the possibility of a successful relationship. It is very important that two people in a relationship have a true friendship with one another. In a relationship, one needs to spend a great deal of time with one another, and to do this one is required to love another wholeheartedly. Just imagine if you have to stay with a person, with whom you do not share any friendship and you so not like that person, how tough it would be to spend even a small proportion of time with that person. Friendship is the backbone of any love relationship.

Compatibility

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Compatibility is a factor that determines the nature and the life of a relationship between two people. Compatibility means to enjoy doing same things, same likings and disliking, and to have many other things in common. Two people in a relationship can only stay happy if both love to do majority of similar things, otherwise the difference in majority of tastes leads to difference in opinions and conflicts. A relationship loses its intensity if the partners have no common interests because they do not enjoy anything that they can do together, and then it becomes more of a compromise. Therefore, there has to be a high level of compatibility between partners to make a relationship strong.

Do not take your partner for granted

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Love relationship requires the best efforts of both the partners to make each other’s life blissful. Both the partners do numerous things everyday in order to make their beloved happy. They try to satisfy every little wish and put in efforts to make all their dreams come true just because they love them. However, in some relationships things are a bit different. One partner tries his best to make his beloved happy and satisfies but she starts to take things and her partners’ behaviour for granted. This behaviour eventually leads to the end of a relationship.

Summary:

There are some qualities that make a relationship work, and whose absence leads to a split of the partners.

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Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Facts everybody having a love and sex life should know http://drprem.com/love/facts-everybody-love-sex-life-know http://drprem.com/love/facts-everybody-love-sex-life-know#comments Fri, 21 Nov 2014 10:59:16 +0000 http://drprem.com/love/?p=10300 Everybody has their own love and a sex life, but still one is always curious to know about other’s love life not because of any other reason but just to confirm the level and standard of their love life. Well, if you agree to this and you belong to this category then this article is ...

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Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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Everybody has their own love and a sex life, but still one is always curious to know about other’s love life not because of any other reason but just to confirm the level and standard of their love life. Well, if you agree to this and you belong to this category then this article is surely for you. Click through to find out facts related to one’s sex and love life:

Women are marvelous spies

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Starting from the first day when a woman goes with a man on date, women do not depend upon men to reveal their life to them, and therefore, they do their homework beforehand only. Women spy on the man with whom they intend to start a relationship with, and find out stuff that they want to know about the man. Although men also do the same, but women are more intricate on the spy part.

Worried about the dipping sexual interest post marriage

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Majority of women and men have a misconception that either the sex life becomes boring, or it starts plummeting after a few years of marriage. This misconception is so strong in some people that they actually worry a lot about it. All you men and women kindly get this thing very straight that it is just a myth and nothing more. More than 41 percent of people in the world do not experience a drop in their sexual pleasure even after so many years of their marriage. So, stop worrying and enjoy.

Love and marriage is good for men’s bones

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To go by the study of University of California, Los Angeles, love and marriage is good for men’s bones, as it strengthens their skeleton. Well, this is not the only health benefit of marriage that men enjoy but there are many other health benefits as well. Married men are less prone to cancers and heart diseases, and they have a longer life as well.

You do not feel sick when you are sexually aroused

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Many people would agree that sex is a messy activity featuring fluids and smells. However, when a person is sexually aroused, he does not feel grossed out owing to the smells and the messy fluid because sexual arousal overrides the body’s natural response, the disgust response.

The arousal makes the mind strong against some sick happenings and a person does not feel disgusted. A normal person feels sick when someone pukes in front of him under normal circumstances, but if the person is sexually aroused then there is a possibility that he will not respond to the puke in the same way.

Men fall in love faster and out of it slower

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Men are renowned for being flirtatious and non-committers, and that they are very quick at changing their feelings, but this is untrue in most of the cases. Men are the ones who fall in love faster than women do. Moreover, they are the ones who take more time to get over a break up and move on in lives. Men do experience a roller coaster ride of emotions but cannot express them.

Boys are more eager to meet her parents

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It sounds so sweet that majority of the times it is a boy in relationship with a girl who is more anxious to meet the girl’s parents. However, many boys accept the fact that it is not commitment that makes them anxious to meet parents; rather it is to satisfy their doubts. They want to find out the nature of a girl’s dad, so that there is no scope for any future trouble.

Summary

In order to make your love and sex life happier and successful, it is good to know all the facts and possibilities about love life.

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Dr Prem Jagyasi (c)
Author, Chartered Consultant, Personal Branding Expert & Global Trainer at DrPrem.com
Dr Prem is an award winning strategic leader, renowned author, publisher and highly acclaimed global speaker. Aside from publishing a bevy of life improvement guides, Dr Prem runs a network of 50 niche websites that attracts millions of readers across the globe. Thus far, Dr Prem has traveled to more than 40 countries, addressed numerous international conferences and offered his expert training and consultancy services to more than 150 international organizations. He also owns and leads a web services and technology business, supervised and managed by his eminent team. Dr Prem further takes great delight in travel photography.
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