Attaining happiness in life would not be a tedious task if you keep it simple and know what the real happiness is for you. Life is simple and straight; do not make it complex for yourself. The ultimate aim is to seek real happiness in life.
Chose autonomy
It simply means choosing to work alone. Working as a team could give you reasons for not succeeding, blaming others or their involvement in the tasks, but autonomy means it is your success and failure. You would have no one else to share credit with and it gives a chance to explore yourself completely.
Who really has a perfect life?
Whatever life has given you as a whole chose your happiness from it. Do not seek others approval for everything, make your own choices and accept the consequences. Forgive others, do not let anger control your life. Accept your body as the way it is; do not seek approval from others to be happy about the way you look. There is no such thing as perfect. Do not run after having a perfect job, perfect partner, and perfect life, as they do not exist. Money can never make you happy; if it was so all rich people would have been happier.
Goals to make you happy
Set goals that give you happiness. Introspect and get to know what gives you happiness. Go back in time; get back to those moments that made you happy to the most. When you know what makes you happy, try to set such goals and achieve them full heartedly. Be a self-motivator as the only person who knows you for real is you. Keeping goals to make you happy would give you an inner strength, as you will be striving to achieve your won happiness now.
Keep it simple
Keep the idea of your happiness simple as that is how you can get the real happiness and do not make comparisons with those who have a lot. It would pull you backward. Do not give preference to money since it is a never-ending desire. Make new friends and spend quality time with your family. Smile as much as you can even when you face troubles in you life.
Happiness is a state of mind
Happiness does not lie in big achievements and a lot of money. The kind of happiness they give you is not permanent. You would be happy for a very short period if you get a lot of money or a first rate job then you would start seeking more. The real happiness is the one that comes from within you, the inner peace.
Live in today
Future is important but not so important that you sacrifice your present thinking upon it. Thinking over it would land you in the middle of nowhere. Lives in present and live life to the maximum since once gone this time would never come back.
Positive language
Get into the habit of using positivity in your language. Do not even utter up negative words as they eventually affects your subconscious mind negatively. Positive self-talk can help you give your best to attain the eternal happiness.
