Nothing ‘just’ happens
Nothing ‘just’ happens as there is always a driving force that makes it happen. This statement is true for everyone. Your gains and your losses are all outcomes of your deeds and decisions therefore there is absolutely nothing that happens by itself. Whatever is happening around you is one way or another related to your thoughts and action so if anyone considers that something just happens must free them from this notion. It is you who make things happen and your choices and decisions that influence the situations around you.
It is ‘you’ who make things happen
There are numerous examples that can prove the statement that nothing just happens and it is always you who make things happen. For instance if you are getting overweight or underweight then it is totally up to your eating habits and lifestyle and not by accident. Similarly, if you manage to get a wonderful job or lose your existing one then that too is an outcome of your actions and decisions. No one and nothing are responsible for your successes and failures and it is only you who is accountable for the both.
It takes equal efforts and thoughts to get success or get failure at a certain task and nothing just happens out of the blue. If you wish and dream to be successful and happy then you make efforts for the same by planning and working hard. On the other hand if you wish to remain a failure then you work for that too by not working hard or avoiding the opportunities that come your way by your laziness and lack of focus. Nor success nor failure ‘just’ happens and it is and always will be you who make it happen.
Blaming others for your bad decisions or failure is also of no use as the choices in your life can be taken by only you so how can others be responsible for your failures? Wasting time in blaming others for your bad or wrong decisions is definitely not the smart thing to do. It is your life and it is solely upon you that you make it big or lose it by wrong choices. Even your tiny decision has a place in your future therefore it becomes very important to take life seriously and focus on what comes your way.
When you realize that you are the master of your own life and your tiny choices also matters then you begin to view life in a whole new light. When you know that you are the driving force then you get up and get to work and plan your actions in a wise manner. Success is desired by one and all but only few realize that only their efforts can help them to attain success and complaining and blaming others are just excuses. Waiting for things to happen automatically is of no use at all as there is nothing in this world that happens by itself.
Take credit for your success and account for your failures!
Some people get successful very easily while some others take a lot of time to get what they desire but it is only their deeds that make them or break them. In order to gain full control on life it is very essential to understand that your decisions and options are the ones that will decide your future. Therefore work accordingly and avoid blaming others for your failures and complaining when things don’t go as per your plan.
The main thing to focus here is to understand that instead of leaving things on chance it is better to take control and responsibility of your actions. It is a widely known fact that your actions determine who you really are and this applies to one and all. It is not the circumstances that result in your success or failure but it is your actions that pull the trigger. Stop putting all the blame on the situation and make efforts to turn the situation into a positive one. There is no one in this world who has not encountered a failure but those who really desire success do not get disheartened by the failures that come in their way. Instead they make efforts and turn the hopeless circumstances into positive and hopeful circumstances.
You are the driver of your life therefore waste no further time in taking the driver seat. Your each and every action will help you in building a wonderful life or ruining your life hence again the choice is yours. You are undoubtedly responsible for making the final call but seeking help of others from time to time is not wrong. The people around you can only lend a helping hand when required but you cannot give them the power to make the tough choices for you. There are easy and tough decisions in life that have to be taken in order to move ahead and you will have to understand that letting go is not an option.
Focus your efforts in the right direction and you will see that your dreams will take the shape of reality with time. Success comes to those who work for it and not to those who never work and blame everything on chance or on the people around them. You can make or destroy your life and no one has the right or power to do that for you. Plan your life in an organized manner and never loosen your grip because your destiny is relies on your thoughts and actions.
Nothing ‘just’ happens exist for both success and failure and this statement are true for anyone and everyone. You are responsible for each and every situation that arises in your life and your efforts and choices can make them in your favor or they can also worsen them against your. Your role is the most important when it comes to your life and it cannot be played by anyone but ‘you’.