Healthy relationships form an aura of ballooning-joy around one’s life. The bonds we share with our loved ones are indispensible for promoting emotional well-being. On the contrary, when a held-dear relationship turns from sweet to sour, a cloud of despair shrouds us. Especially when the institution of marriage where we feel loved and special gets derailed, we feel terribly down and cut into shreds.
“A stitch in time saves nine.” A relationship can be prevented from following the route of unalterable decay, if we strive to identify the factors marring it as early as possible and work to bridge the gaping, emotional gap.
Unreasonable doubts emancipating from the gossip-factory, precipitate a lot of unrest among the married couples and lead to uncalled for trust-dismantling allegations against each other. An eye-popping fact is that doubt often stems from doubt. An unsure person will not be confident, either in the allegation-making or in taking a defensive stance.
So, the first step to restore a fast-vanishing relationship is to inspect the genuineness of your doubts. If they are your own, rooted in your personal inspection of your partner’s over-egoistic or infidelity-tarred behavior, then you have a strong reason to ask for an urgent explanation. On the contrary, if you have fallen into the trap of outer opinions, it’s better to let the outer opinions be outer, unless you come across a strong evidence to support them.
Another thing that sows seeds of disharmony among couples is not giving each other enough personal space. Of course, bonding with one another time and again is imperative to sustain martial bliss, but it should not be at the cost of encroaching upon each other’s personal space. Couples, who assign high value to some moments of personal privacy, pave way for long-lasting happiness to intrude into their lives.
A hug may do what a diamond ring cannot do to strengthen your relationship with your spouse. These delicate yet warm physical expressions send a strong message across that your life partner is an irreplaceable part of your life. However, the ever-increasing work load has led to the gradual disappearance of such beautiful symbols of mutual affection. So, if your love life seems to be fading away, it’s time to welcome back those long-lost warm-hugs and passionate-kisses. And let me guarantee, these will not be forced actions, but a healthy exercise to ease the stress induced by ever-piling work pressure.
Rekindling the flame of love and doing away with relationship-problems is not an arduous task for those who know how to protect their bonds from negative, outside influences. Moreover, a little sprinkling of bedroom romance is all you need to experience again that marriage denotes the merging of two souls.
Last but not the least, to feel a strong connection with your spouse, you should act more from the heart and less from the head, as love knows no logic; it is based in natural actions!
