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How to deal with consistent calls from your ex

How to deal with consistent calls from your ex

Relationships can enrich our lives and make it worth living but a bad relationship can affect it for a long time. If you love someone dearly, then parting with him or her might prove to be one of the most painful situations of your life. There are many people who face difficulties in coping with situations like a break up. If you have also parted away from your ex girlfriend, then it is very important for you to recover and find out the reason behind the bad side of your relationship. If you love your ex and you want her to come back, then you must give sufficient time to you as well as your ex. If you ex does not communicate, then you must try to forget her and move on. It is a fact that time heals everything and it is possible that you might get involved into a better relationship in the future.

Most of the people receive calls from their ex but they actually do not know the right way to respond to such calls. If you are also receiving consistent calls from your ex, then it is extremely important for you to deal with these calls properly and manage your ex in the right manner. It has been observed that such type of phone calls often leads to a pleasant conversation. However, you must always try to analyze things properly because guys often over analyze things and hence, they end up on the losing side. If you are capable of analyzing things in a proper manner, then you might get a lot of strength and opportunities in future.

First of all, you need to make sure that you talk to your ex politely. Many people use abusive words for their ex girlfriends and this may worsen the situation. You must always try to behave normally in front of your ex and try to prove that you are enjoying your life. Make sure that you do not become too emotional in front of your ex. You must always try to sort things out if you want your ex to come back in your life again. According to the survey reports, there are four main reasons as to why your ex will call you.

She wants to be friends again

This is one of the most common reasons for which your ex can call you. If your ex wants to come back in your life as a good friend, then you must always accept their proposal. It is a fact that after a relationship breaks, there are a lot of fragments that can help you in transforming your broken relationship into a beautiful friendship. If you are dating any person, then having them back in your life in the form of good friends can really make your life enjoyable and beautiful. If your ex calls you and she does not try to rake old issues or incidents, then she really wants to be your friend. Make sure that you think about it carefully and take the right shot at this friendship.

She might be lonely and want to be with you again  

Such kind of situation generally arises when you and your ex suffer from recent break up situations. If you love your ex and she suddenly departs from your life, then you might feel a lot of pain. Most of the people fail to cope with such immediate relationship breaks. If your ex is consistently calling you and she wants to come back in your life in order to get rid of her loneliness, then you need to make your decision very carefully. You must take proper time for understanding her feelings and respond to her accordingly. Make sure that you do not get affected by emotions and take the wrong decision.

She still loves you and wants you back  

If your ex is deeply involved with you in a relationship and she want you back in her life, then you must try to analyze things properly. Most of the couples love each other truly but they often suffer from relationship breaks due to misunderstandings. If you are receiving consistent calls from your ex, make sure that you do not let your ego spoil the whole situation. If you also want to make up with your ex, then you must talk to her and make your decision accordingly.

She might be using you to make herself feel better

If your ex is fond of you, then she might call you again and use you in order to make herself feel better. She might also spend her time talking to you on phone in order to get rid of her loneliness. So, if your ex is approaching you and sharing her problems with you, then you must advice her to take a hike. Make sure that you not act as a punching bag for her.

Dr Prem Jagyasi

Dr Prem Jagyasi

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